1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,128 (beep) 2 00:00:03,271 --> 00:00:12,470 (screaming) 3 00:00:12,470 --> 99:59:59,999 (jazzy intro) 4 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How does it feel to be 5 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the same sex as Donald Trump? 6 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How does it feel to be 7 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the same sex as Sarah Palin? 8 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How does it feel to be 9 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the same sex as Michelle Bachman? 10 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How does it feel to be the 11 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 same sex as anybody you disagree with? 12 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why does it even matter 13 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 whether or not you're the 14 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 same gender as somebody else? 15 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I mean, I'm also the same 16 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gender as Abraham Lincoln, Einstein, 17 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and the guy who introduced 18 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 chocolate to the Western world. 19 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So what are you even getting 20 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 at with this question? 21 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Are you trying to say Donald Trump 22 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is bad, and Donald Trump 23 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is a man, therefore men are bad? 24 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why do you hate rom-coms? 25 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Or do you just feel like you 26 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 need to hate them? 27 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Everybody likes The Notebook, 28 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 everybody likes Beyoncé. 29 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It's just a fact. 30 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Men hate romantic comedies 31 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for the same reason you 32 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hate video games with 33 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 over-sexualized female characters. 34 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 The men in these movies are 35 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 always willing to sacrifice 36 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 their careers, their dreams, 37 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 even their lives to win 38 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the lead females' affection. 39 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Now I don't have any empirical 40 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 data to back this up, but 41 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it seems to me that 42 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 romantic comedies and 43 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 romance movies in general 44 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 cause women to have unrealistic 45 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 expectations of men and what 46 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 love should be like, and these 47 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 become the expectations 48 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that men have to live up to, 49 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and it's unfair. 50 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Feminists like to bitch 51 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 about poor representation of women 52 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in media intended for men 53 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because they promote body issues 54 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and shit like that 55 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And I agree, to at least, an extent 56 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But it's not any better for men 57 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 When we're expected to be Prince Charming, 58 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ready and willing to sacrifice themselves 59 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 physically, mentally, and emotionally 60 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And we're called selfish for daring to 61 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have our own desires 62 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or even misogynistic for daring to draw 63 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 attention to our own problems. 64 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 These movies appeal to the female fantasy 65 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of having a night in shining armor 66 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 swear their entire existence to pleasing 67 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 them, and thus reinforce these notions 68 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 within their target audience of women 69 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like you that you somehow deserve 70 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to have your boyfriends and husbands 71 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 give up everything that makes them 72 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who they are and basically dehumanize 73 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 themselves for your pleasure and 74 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 devote 100% of their time and energy 75 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to you. The fact that some of you 76 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 watching this are scoffing at what I 77 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 just said only proves my point. 78 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You have fooled yourself into thinking 79 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that I'm somehow the one whose being 80 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 selfish when I object to the notion 81 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that men should be expected to cave 82 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 into all of your demands, for the sake of 83 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your perverted idealistic conception 84 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of love. And I have no doubts that 85 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 some of you will accuse me of being 86 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bitter at some ex girlfriend for saying 87 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that, but I'm not and I will 88 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pre-emptively characterize such an 89 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 argument as out cropping of the 90 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 very mentality that I'm talking about. 91 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You expect all of your demands to be 92 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 catered to, and any man who is unwilling 93 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or unable to cater to them must have 94 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 something wrong with them. Us men are 95 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 human beings with our own interests and 96 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 goals, and it's selfish for you to expect 97 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 us to give all that up for you. 98 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But these movies condition you to expect 99 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 exactly that. And that is why we hate 100 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 romantic comedies. We don't see anything 101 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 romantic about them. What we see is the 102 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 reinforcement of unfair and unreasonable 103 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 expectations about what we should be doing 104 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with our own lives. Also, fuck Beyonce. 105 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you make women sit around and talk 106 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 about men in movies when y'all easily just 107 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sit around and talk about boobs for hours? 108 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 One, I don't know, maybe you should be 109 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 asking that to people who rent romantic 110 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 comedies you like so much, because 111 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 those are the movies which have women 112 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sitting around talking about men. Or, 113 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 better yet, instead of complaining about 114 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how writers depict women in their movies, 115 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 maybe you should try being the change you 116 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 want to see and write your own damn movie. 117 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Then you could make the female characters 118 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sit around and talk about whatever you 119 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 want. Like how men are oppressing them, or 120 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how men are objectifying them or how men 121 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are such pigs, or how men spread their 122 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 legs too far apart on the subway, or how 123 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men hate romantic comedies. There's 124 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 nothing stopping you. 125 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Two, you're referring to the Bechdel Test, 126 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 which is bullshit. All the Twilight movies 127 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pass the Bechdel Test, but I think you'd 128 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hesitate to call any of those movies 129 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "pro-feminist." 130 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Three, I don't know a single guy who ever 131 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 talks about boobs for hours at a time. 132 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I think the only guys who do are medical 133 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 students learning how to conduct 134 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 mammograms. You want to know what most of 135 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the men I know talk about? Movies, video 136 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 games, politics, religion, music, sports, 137 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 cars, boats, technology, work, guns, 138 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hunting, places they've been to, people 139 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 they've met, and so on. The subject of 140 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 boobs actually rarely ever comes up. 141 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Contrary to what you may have been told in 142 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your Women's Studies class, men don't 143 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think about sex constantly. If we did, we 144 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 would never have invented the camera 145 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 equipment you used to make this video. 146 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Four. If anybody's talking about boobs for 147 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hours at a time, it's feminists. You're 148 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the ones who are always whining about 149 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the designs of fictional characters, 150 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 complaining that fat girls' tits are too 151 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 big. And in all honesty, the only time I 152 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ever even think about a comic book 153 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 character's tits is when I hear a feminist 154 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bring it up. So I think maybe you're 155 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 projecting. 156 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you automatically assume that you 157 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 won't like the TV or movies that star a 158 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 female lead?" 159 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't. In fact, some of my favorite 160 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 movies and TV shows have female leads. 161 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't know a single man who has ever 162 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 scoffed at the notion of watching a movie 163 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or TV show just because it has a female 164 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 protagonist. However, I have seen 165 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feminists scoff at anything with a male 166 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 lead. 167 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you surprised when women are 168 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 funny?" "I'm probably funnier than you!" 169 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm not surprised when women are funny. 170 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 There are plenty of funny women out there. 171 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 [names not recognized], et cetera. 172 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But I will say that, in general, women are 173 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 not as funny as men, and I think most 174 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women won't agree with that statement. 175 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I also think there's a reason for this. 176 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 See if you understand what humor is 177 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and how it works, which I'm guessing 178 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you don't because you're feminists, 179 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 then you know that the things that make 180 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 laugh often have their roots in very dark 181 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 subject matter. 182 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 To quote the amazing atheist, 183 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "These people who are fucking offended 184 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 by rape jokes don't even understand 185 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 humor. They don't understand- They 186 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think of humor as like a happy thing, 187 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because humor makes us laugh and laughter 188 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 makes us happy, but a lot of the time 189 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 they don't seem to notice that what we're 190 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 actually laughing at is quite dark and 191 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 morbid. Like if you actually look at it 192 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and examine the jokes, and look at the 193 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 exaggeration and try to figure out the 194 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 mechanics of how the joke works, 195 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 why does it work; you're gonna find that 196 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a lot of jokes have their genesis in pain 197 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and suffering. Because laughter is this 198 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 great transcendent tool we have, where 199 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we can take something that- that's bitter 200 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and difficult to comprehend or deal with, 201 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and make it something funny. 202 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Like if I take a joke like "How many 203 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 police officers does it take change a 204 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 light bulb?" 205 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "None, they just beat the room for being 206 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 black." you know that joke has it's 207 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 genesis in some very serious, very dark 208 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 shit. And that joke is not making light 209 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the fact that people have suffered, 210 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or it's not making light of the fact that 211 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people, you know, marched in the Civil 212 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Rights Movement, or- or that people are 213 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 racial discriminated against, or police 214 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 brutality. It's not making light of any 215 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of that. What it's doing is it's taking 216 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that pain and it's taking that dark 217 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 subject matter, and it's helping us 218 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 transcend it for a moment. And view 219 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the absurdity of our circumstance. 220 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because that is what humor is supposed to 221 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do. Humor at it's best takes the elements 222 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the world that are dark and horrible, 223 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and shows you there absurdity. It shows 224 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you the absurdity of the human condition. 225 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and that is important." 226 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 See men are socially conditioned to not 227 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 talk openly and honestly about their 228 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feelings, which I'll talk more about 229 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 later, and that's why we cultivate a sense 230 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of humor. The only way we can really talk 231 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 about the things that upset us is if 232 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we do it through the filter of comedy. 233 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But women have the clears throat 234 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "privilege" to not be subject to social 235 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 conditioning, and so they don't feel the 236 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 need to cultivate a sense of humor. 237 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And that's why women, in general, aren't 238 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as funny and men. That isn't to say that 239 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 all men are funny, or that all women are 240 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 unfunny. It's just that in general men are 241 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 funnier than women. I'm sorry but that's 242 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how it is. Also no- I'd rather strongly 243 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 doubt that you're funnier than me. 244 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And it's not because you're a women. 245 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Just judging by how you look and talk, 246 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm willing to bet that your sense of 247 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 humor boils down to saying something rude, 248 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and then following it with "Just kidding". 249 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I mean I'm not the funniest person in 250 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the world but if you think of yourself 251 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as the funny one, you probably lack the 252 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 objectivity to realizing that everybody 253 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 else in your circle of friends probably 254 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 thinks of you as the "annoying one". 255 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Just kidding, actually I'm not. 256 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you think we're obsessed with you 257 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 when we hook up?" "Nine times out of 258 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ten, I just want you to leave too, I'm 259 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 busy, I got shit to do." 260 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Probably because you do shit like text 261 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 us 50 times in the space of one hour, and 262 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 slash our tires when we dump you after you 263 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accuse us of cheating because you saw our 264 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sister's name in our call history. Also 265 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 what shit could you possibly have to do? 266 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Pluck your eyebrows to the point 267 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 where they're so unnaturally clean around 268 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the edges that they look like they're 269 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 drawn on? Spend your husband's money 270 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 on more frumpy sweaters? Buy a tub of 271 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Ben & Jerry's and watch Glee? Or write 272 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 more questions for men to answer 273 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because you're so lacking in self 274 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 awareness that you can't figure out the 275 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 answers for yourself? 276 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why can't I sleep as many people as I 277 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 want to without being judged? When men do 278 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it, they're congratulated" 279 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Go ahead and sleep with as many 280 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people as you want. I don't give a shit, 281 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but once again I don't know anybody who 282 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 would. The only time I would care is if I 283 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 was dating you, because if you told me 284 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you've been with 20 other guys before 285 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I met you, I would naturally assume that 286 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 there was something wrong with you 287 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 if you've been in so many relationships 288 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and have them all fail. Not to mention the 289 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fact that your substantially more 290 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to be carrying an STD. And I think 291 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it's perfectly reasonable for a woman to 292 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 view men who have slept with a lot of 293 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 other women the same way. Also who's 294 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 congratulating men for sleeping around? 295 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't see any guys walking around with 296 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 trophies for fucking everyone they've 297 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 met. It's not like having sex with easy 298 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women is some kind of achievement. 299 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Furthermore, I would say that most media 300 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 portrays men who do that as assholes 301 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who should be looked at with content. 302 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I mean -name not recognized- isn't 303 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 exactly portrayed as a model citizen. 304 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 By the way studies have found that the 305 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 majority of people who slut shame women, 306 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are other women. Maybe you should be 307 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 directing this question at them and not 308 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men. 309 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you consider a woman a tease, 310 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 if she does sleep with you after three 311 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dates, but a slut if she sleeps with you 312 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 on the first date?" 313 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why do you consider a man a douchebag if 314 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he doesn't call you back three days after 315 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he meets you, but desperate if he calls 316 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you the next day? 317 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "In what world does no mean yes?" 318 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "No means no." 319 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't know anybody who thinks no 320 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 means yes. Also this question seems to be 321 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in the spirit of the feminist notion that 322 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 all men are potential rapists. Which 323 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 simply isn't true. I already talked about 324 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this at length in my other video, "'Teach 325 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men not to rape' is a stupid rhetoric". 326 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Moving on. 327 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you say that women are too 328 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 emotional to be leaders" 329 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 whispering: maybe if feminist argued 330 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with logics instead of feelings, people 331 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wouldn't think that. 332 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Then justify cat calling by saying 333 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 'men just can't control themselves'" 334 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I've never heard a man say either, I have 335 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hear women say both though. 336 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you think that just because 337 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're nice to me, I owe you my body?" 338 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why do you think that just because I'm 339 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 nice to you that I want your body. 340 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Sometimes I've been walking down the 341 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 street, hysterically crying because my cat 342 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 was missing, and a man came up and 343 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 was like 'Hey what's up, why are you 344 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 crying? Can I talk to you?' 345 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "But I want to continue this, so when 346 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the guy up to you and asked you 347 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how you were doing, did you judge his 348 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 intentions, or do you feel like-" 349 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "I was like what the hell is wrong with 350 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you I'm hysterically crying, holding 351 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 flyers that say missing cat." 352 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Wait what if he was checking how you were 353 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 doing because you were crying?" 354 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "No he was- It was a catcall, it was like 355 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a 'Hey pretty lady, like what's going on-" 356 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "What if he was trying to be sweet to get 357 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 into you, like 'hey pretty lady, why are 358 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you crying?'" 359 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "He's not entitled to my time, honestly" 360 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "If he had not said anything to you, then 361 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he's a dick because he's a guy in society 362 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who saw a girl crying and didn't do 363 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 anything." 364 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "But it's a different- If he's saying that 365 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to get my number, that's different that 366 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 him coming up and saying 'Whats 367 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wrong, if I see your cat around, I'll let 368 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you know. Like that's a different thing" 369 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "But how is he going to know about your 370 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 cat, he saw a girl crying on the street" 371 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Well, it was just- I was hanging up the 372 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 flyers." 373 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Now I'll now if I ever see a girl crying 374 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 on the street, and she's hysterical and 375 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 she might've just lost her parents and 376 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 has nobody, I shouldn't go up to her 377 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because she might think I'm objectify her" 378 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "She doesn't know you. She doesn't know 379 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you." 380 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "But we're humans, we should care about 381 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 each other." 382 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Of course, of course, but I think you 383 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have to understand what you come off 384 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as to women. They don't know you. It's 385 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like if a brown bear came up and said 386 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hello to you. Like you just have to like-" 387 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why would you ever send an unsolicited 388 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dick pic?" 389 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I wouldn't. If you didn't give out your 390 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 phone number to the types of guys you meet 391 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in night clubs, you know the type of guys 392 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who go to such clubs for the specific 393 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 purpose of meeting women, and who read 394 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 books about how to be a pick up artist; 395 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 maybe you wouldn't be getting dick pics 396 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 from them. 397 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you feel like it's okay to harrass 398 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women, or make offensive comments about 399 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women, but when somebody does it to your 400 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sister, it's not okay?" 401 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why do you feel like it's okay to make 402 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 these misandrist videos which paint all 403 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men as sexual harassers or rapists, but 404 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 when somebody treats your son that way, 405 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it's not okay? 406 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "How does it feel to interrupt me when 407 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm in the middle of making a point 408 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 during a meetings?" 409 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You make it sound like the only people 410 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who have ever interrupted you are men. 411 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I smell confirmation bias. Hey have you 412 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ever stopped to think that maybe people 413 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 interrupt you because they realize you're 414 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 talking shit and wasting time after only 415 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 two sentences. 416 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you have to sit with your legs 417 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 so wide open?" 418 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "I get that you have balls, but I don't 419 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 stand around with my arms wide open 420 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to make room for my boobs." 421 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe that's because your boobs don't get 422 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 squished between your arms when you stand 423 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 normally with your arms down by your 424 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sides. A man's balls are literally between 425 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 his legs, and they do get squished if he 426 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 puts his legs together. It's not exactly 427 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 an apt comparison. Furthermore, why 428 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do you even care? I don't see you 429 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 complaining about women taking up 430 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 two seats with their bags. 431 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are women perceived as the weaker 432 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sex? Even though we literally birth you, 433 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like watermelons through like 'this'" 434 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because physical strength has nothing to 435 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do with your ability to give birth. Women 436 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are, generally speaking, not as physically 437 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 strong as men. The average man has about 438 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 50% greater upper body strength than the 439 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 average woman. I'm sorry but that's just 440 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 simple biology. There's also the fact 441 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that men are by in large the one's who go 442 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to war and fight and die to protect you. 443 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Men are the ones who work the dangerous 444 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 jobs to make your comfortable lifestyle in 445 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the industrialized world possible. 446 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And historically men are also the ones 447 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who have gone out into the unforgiving 448 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wilderness to kill dangerous animals so 449 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ungrateful entitled women like you could 450 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 eat. You as a woman are substantially less 451 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to die during your daily activities 452 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and you don't have to worry about being 453 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 called a deadbeat for not risking life in 454 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a factory or field for the benefit of 455 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 others. Nor do you have to worry about 456 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 being told you don't have a real job 457 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because you work with computers or push 458 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pencils in a safe, clean environment. 459 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Women work soft cushy jobs compared to 460 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men and that's why women make only 7% of 461 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 workplace fatalities despite making up 47% 462 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the work force. That is why you're 463 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 perceived as the weaker sex. If you 464 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 don't want people to see you that way, 465 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 then get out of your comfortable air 466 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 conditioned studio and go work on a 467 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 craving boat on a coal mine. You're 468 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 always complaining about employment 469 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 discrimination, so go ahead, take the 470 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dirty dangerous jobs and show us all just 471 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how strong and tough you are. And look 472 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't begrudge women for working jobs 473 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that don't put them in danger and I will 474 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 freely admit that my job isn't 475 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 particularly dangerous; but if you're 476 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 going to sit there and act like women 477 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are stronger than men just because you can 478 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 give birth, something which you have a 479 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 0.0002 percent chance of dying from if you 480 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 live in the United States, and that's up 481 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 from 15 years ago, then you can fuck right 482 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 off. By the way passing a kidney stone 483 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hurts more than giving birth. Any woman 484 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who has experienced both will tell you 485 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that, and men get them more often so 486 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 blow me. 487 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why is it so bad to show your emotions?" 488 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "It means you're human." 489 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe it's because feminists like you 490 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 tell us we're misogynists for even 491 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 daring to complain about our problems. 492 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Since you're not a man and you don't have 493 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 even the slightest inclining of what it's 494 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like to be a man, let me spell it out for 495 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you. Boys are socially conditioned from 496 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the day we learn to talk to not express 497 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 our feelings. We are [unknown] constantly 498 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 be told to man up and that boys don't cry. 499 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We don't have the privilege of showing 500 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 our emotions because if we do, it's a sign 501 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of weakness. To put it simply, us men are 502 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 programmed to believe that our own 503 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feelings are invalid, and so we hide them 504 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and we lie about them. We are raised to 505 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 expect that if we tell you our feelings, 506 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you will shoot them down. You will tell 507 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 us we're wrong for feeling the way we do, 508 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and even if you don't, we still don't want 509 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to tell you our feelings because 510 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we know you'll use them against us. 511 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You're probably thinking that you don't do 512 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that but you do, you do it all the time 513 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and don't even realize it. Ask yourself if 514 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you have ever had an argument 515 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with one of them men in your life and 516 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you told them "If you were a real man..." 517 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 If you ever have then you have done 518 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 exactly what I'm talking about. See no 519 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 woman has ever been told "If you're 520 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a real woman you wouldn't feel this way" 521 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Women have their feelings cultivated and 522 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 coddled. You're not only allowed to cry. 523 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you are expected to, and when you do, 524 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people around you give you sympathy and 525 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you are comforted. You are so used to 526 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 getting sympathy that you feel entitled 527 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to it. Men don't have that luxury. A man 528 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fully expects to be looked down upon, 529 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and told that his feelings don't matter if 530 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he shows any sign of emotional weakness. 531 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Even by the people he trusts most, because 532 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that is what he has experienced for 533 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 his entire life, and you wonder why the 534 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 suicide rate for men is four times higher 535 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 than it is for women. I know what you're 536 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 going to say, you're going to say that 537 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the social conditioning of men to not 538 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 show their emotions is part of the 539 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 patriarchy, and feminism is fighting to 540 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 change that. Good, what heroes you are, 541 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 let me give you a little golf clap while 542 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you take a sip from your fucking 543 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 'Male Tears' mug while sitting in the 544 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 comfort of your safe space, where 545 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men aren't allowed. 546 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you always trying to prove your 547 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 masculinity?" 548 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 See my answer to the previous question. 549 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Also wow, how egocentric are you. 550 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You are so certain that the world 551 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 revolves around you that you believe that 552 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 when a man is acting like a man, that he 553 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 must be trying to prove something to you. 554 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Like he couldn't possibly be acting like a 555 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 man just because he's, you know, a 556 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fucking man. Why are you constantly trying 557 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to prove your femininity to me? How 558 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bout that? 559 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why the fuck isn't it lady like to cuss? 560 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 When did words get gendered?" 561 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It's also not considered gentlemen like 562 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to curse. Swearing is generally 563 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 considered rude regardless of the gender 564 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the person who is doing it. Personally 565 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't give a shit if you use 566 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 profanity. Go right the fuck ahead. 567 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And when did words get genered? 568 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I guess right around the time the 569 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 word feminist was invented, which is 570 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 at self a gendered word. I'm mean the 571 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 invention of feminism is when everything 572 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 suddenly became gendered. Like when assert 573 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that interrupting people is somehow a 574 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 uniquely male behavior, or that only 575 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women get told not to swear. 576 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why is it your first instinct to doubt 577 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women who have been sexually violated or 578 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 raped?" 579 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe a false rape accusation weren't 580 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 systemically encouraged by feminism, 581 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we wouldn't have a problem. Notice how 582 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this question is phrased, to doubt women 583 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who have been sexually violated or raped. 584 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 The more salient question would be, 585 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 'Why do you doubt women who claim to have 586 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 been sexually violated or raped. And the 587 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 answer is because we have this thing 588 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 called the presumption of innocence. 589 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 That means a person who is accused of a 590 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 crime is innocent until proven guilty. 591 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So it's not my first instinct to doubt, 592 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it's my moral imperative to doubt until 593 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 evidence is forthcoming. You wouldn't put 594 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 somebody in jail just because somebody 595 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accused them of murder nor would you put 596 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 them in jail just because somebody accused 597 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 them of theft, nor would you put them in 598 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 jail because somebody accused them of any 599 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 other crime. Why should accusations of 600 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 rape be held to a different standard? This 601 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 really isn't a difficult concept to 602 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 understand, and it both baffles me and 603 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 disturbs me how often I see feminists 604 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 failing to grasp this. For people who 605 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 claim to fight for social justice, you 606 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 really don't understand how justice works, 607 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do you? See a man who its accused of rape, 608 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 will have his life ruined. That's not even 609 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 only if he is convicted, the mere 610 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accusation is enough to cost him his job, 611 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 his relationships, his education and 612 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 career prospects, his home, his 613 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 reputation, and so on. If a woman wants 614 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to ruin a man's life all she has to do is 615 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accuse him of raping her and he will be 616 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 put through the ringer by law enforcement 617 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and the media; and even if he is found not 618 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 guilty, the damage will have already been 619 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 done and the woman who made the false 620 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accusation will get away scot free. 621 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Really it astonishes me that even after 622 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 what happened at Duke and the University 623 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of Virginia, that you're still asking 624 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this question. Furthermore, feminists 625 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have abused the word rape to point where 626 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 its lost all meaning. Everything is rape. 627 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Its gotten to the point where if a woman 628 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 claims she was raped I have to wonder 629 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 if she means a guy actually forcibly put 630 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 his penis in her, or if she had 631 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 consensual sex and just decided to call it 632 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 rape when she decided she regretted it the 633 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 next morning, or if she's merely 634 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 complaining that a guy looked at her in 635 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a way that made her feel uncomfortable. 636 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I mean what even is rape at this point? 637 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 According to some feminists, it's rape if 638 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a man changed positions during sex without 639 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 forewarning. It's rape if your boyfriend 640 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 breaks up with you because you cheated on 641 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 him. It's rape if you overhear somebody 642 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 calling somebody else a slut. 643 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "I got raped, when my mother called 644 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 someone else's daughter a slut." 645 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Really it's your own damn fault that 646 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people are becoming increasingly reluctant 647 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to believe rape accusations, because you 648 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have expanded the definition so broadly, 649 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that nobody even knows when you're really 650 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 talking about rape anymore. You did this, 651 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you asked for it, and now you have buyers 652 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 remorse. Now let me pose a question to 653 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you, why is it your first instinct to 654 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 doubt when a man says he was sexually 655 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 violated or raped by a woman. 656 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you assume a woman is angry 657 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because she's on her period?" 658 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because women get angry when they're on 659 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 their period. It's a scientific fact that 660 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the hormonal changes a woman experiences 661 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 during her period cause her to become 662 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 irritable. This is called premenstrual 663 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 syndrome, or PMS. However, I don't 664 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 always assume a woman is angry because 665 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 she is on her period. If your boyfriend 666 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 thinks that, then maybe it's because 667 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're not being straight forward with him 668 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and expecting him to be a mind reader. 669 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe you should try telling him why 670 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're angry. Ever thought about that? 671 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Ever thought about simply telling him that 672 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're mad that he ate the last 673 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Klondike bar or whatever trivial bullshit 674 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're getting your panties in twist over. 675 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 [mocking voice] "Awe he should just be 676 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 able to figure it out" 677 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Yeah like you should be able to figure out 678 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the answers to these stupid questions 679 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're asking. 680 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you think women that wear makeup 681 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are false advertising, we can say the same 682 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 thing about your dick size." 683 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You actually answered the question 684 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 yourself. We consider it false 685 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 advertising for the same reason that you 686 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think a man who stuffs the crotch of his 687 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pants is false advertising. If you cover 688 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 up all your pimples and scars with makeup 689 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you can't really be surprised when he's 690 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 taken aback upon discover that you 691 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 don't really look the way you did when you 692 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 first met. I mean wouldn't you feel like 693 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you were lied to if you met a guy who 694 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 looked well dressed and drove a nice car, 695 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but then you found out that he got his 696 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 clothes at goodwill, and he rented that 697 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 car with his burger king salary. 698 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why isn't it weird that there's a bunch 699 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of old white men sitting in a room, 700 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 making legislation about what I can and 701 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 can't do with my body?" 702 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Wasn't it a room full of old white men 703 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that decided the Roe v. Wade ruling. 704 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You know, women have had the right to 705 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 vote for almost a hundred years now, and 706 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 polling data has found that women are more 707 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to vote than men; and yet these 708 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 old white men keep getting elected. 709 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And I see a lot of you people supporting 710 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Bernie Sanders even though he looks pretty 711 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fuckin old and white to me. Go figure. 712 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Furthermore, why does it even matter that 713 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 they're white? Why does their melanin 714 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 level matter more than the merit of their 715 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ideas? Wasn't it Martin Luther King Jr. 716 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who once said "I have a dream that my 717 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 four little children will one day live in 718 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a nation where they will not be judge by 719 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the color of their skin, but by the 720 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 content of their character." For as much 721 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as you people like to accuse other of 722 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 being racist, you sure do judge people 723 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 based on their race a lot. Oh but it's 724 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 not racism when you do it because of 725 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 power structures or some other mental 726 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gymnastic bullshit, right? As if whether 727 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or not the prejudice somebody is being 728 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 subjected to is institutionalized makes 729 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 any difference to them when it happens. 730 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Fuck off. Racism is racism, regardless of 731 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who is doing it to whom. Calling it 732 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 something other than racism doesn't 733 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 change the fact that it's fucking racism; 734 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And the only people who think otherwise 735 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are racist like you. This mentality that 736 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 only certain people can be racist hinges 737 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 on the categorization of people based on 738 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 their ethnicity, and the ascribing of 739 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 attributes to them such as privilege, 740 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 based on those racial categories. You 741 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have to make judgements based on race to 742 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 make this argument work, you have to make 743 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assumptions and generalization about their 744 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 race and origin to make those judgments. 745 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So you have to be racist to use this 746 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 argument, how do you not see the problem 747 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with this, how do you not see the problem 748 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with putting people's race before the 749 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 merits of their argument and categorizing 750 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people into a hierarchy of consideration 751 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 based on their race. How the fuck do you 752 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 expect to fight racism with racism, and 753 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 then expect people to take you seriously. 754 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe this is the reason why you think 755 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that if somebody thinks that you're 756 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 stupid it must be because you're a woman. 757 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You're projecting, you judge other people 758 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 based on their race and gender so you 759 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assume other people are doing it to you. 760 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Well I've got news for you, I don't think 761 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're stupid because you're a woman, I 762 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think you're stupid because you're stupid. 763 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Anyway I'm getting off topic, it's not 764 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like they don't also tell me what I can't 765 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do with my body. For example, I can't take 766 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the palm of my hand and slap some sense 767 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 into you, without being considered 768 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assault. 769 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Do you have a coochie?" 770 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 No. 771 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are straight guys so obsessed with 772 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 lesbians?" 773 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why are straight women so obsessed with 774 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gay guys? Or better yet, why are women 775 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 so obsessed with lesbians? According to 776 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Porn hub search data for 2014, the number 777 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 one thing women search for was lesbian 778 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 porn. Proportionately women look up 779 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 lesbian porn more than men do. 780 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "How does it feel to get kicked in the 781 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 balls?" 782 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How do you think it feels, you dumb 783 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bitch? 784 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Do you ever get tired of being manly all 785 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the time?" 786 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Do you? You're the one that's dressed like 787 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a lumberjack. To answer the question, no, 788 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 not really. It comes naturally to me 789 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 since I'm, you know, a man. The fact 790 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that you're asking this question implies 791 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that you sometimes get tired of being 792 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feminine, so do you ever get tired of 793 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 being feminine all the time? Is that why 794 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're dressed like a lumberjack? 795 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Would you like to be a man? 796 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Well you have to pass a test first. Have 797 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you mastered the art of manspreading? 798 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Have you completed your forty hours of 799 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 rape training? 800 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you so afraid of gender 801 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 equality?" 802 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm not. You are. What I'm afraid of is 803 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gender inequality. Which is what feminist 804 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are actually pushing for. You want 805 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 examples? In 2005, Swedish Politian and 806 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 co-founder of feminist initiative, 807 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Godrum Schyman, proposed what the media 808 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 called a man tax, which would have raised 809 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 taxes for men in Sweden. Basing it on the 810 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 idea that all men should be held 811 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accountable for all man on women violence. 812 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It should be noted that Schyman was 813 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 convicted of tax evasion in 2004, a 814 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 year before making this proposal. 815 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 In 2010, women's group leaders in Isreal 816 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have unanimously opposed changes to rape 817 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 laws that would make it possible for 818 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women to be convicted of rape. They 819 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 succeeded and now women in Israel commit 820 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sex act on non-consenting adults or 821 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 children who are not old enough to 822 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 legally give informed consent, are not 823 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 actually being charged with rape, and are 824 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 instead charged with lesser crimes. In 825 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 2013 Indian feminists successfully 826 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pressured the government to rewrite rape 827 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 laws in such a way that only men could be 828 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 charged with rape. In 2014, Jessica 829 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Valenti published an article in the 830 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Guardian advocating paying men less than 831 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women. In 2015, York University planned to 832 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hold an international men's day meant to 833 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 highlight issues affecting men and boys, 834 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 such as the high suicide rate, shorter 835 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 life expectancies, and struggles faced in 836 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 getting and education. It was canceled 837 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 after feminists student, staff, and alumni 838 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 protested and held a petition to ban it, 839 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 which received almost 200 signatures. 840 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 To add insult to injury, Holly Baxter 841 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wrote a condescending article on 842 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Independent.co.uk enlightening readers 843 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 why we don't need an international men's 844 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 day. You can claim the definition of 845 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feminism is advocating gender equality 846 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 all you want, but actions speak louder than 847 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 words. And it's really hard to believe the 848 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feminist movement is really a movement 849 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for equality, when you dismiss anyone who 850 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 brings up men's issues as misogynists. 851 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You say all men are rapists, you try to 852 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ban men from certain place son college 853 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 campuses, you actively fight against 854 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 father's rights, undermine the 855 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 presumption of innocence when it comes 856 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to rape accusations, and you deny 857 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 statistics about male victims of domestic 858 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 abuse. As well as protest and disrupt 859 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 conferences about male suicide. 860 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "This is what mens' rights looks like" 861 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "This is what mens' rights looks like" 862 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "This is what mens' rights looks like" 863 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 All that said, why are you so afraid of 864 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gender equality? 865 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do I deserve to be paid less than 866 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you?" 867 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "In what world does 77 cents equal a 868 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dollar?" 869 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "In what world does 68 cents equal a 870 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dollar?" 871 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "How is that fair?" 872 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 After I finished writing my answers to 873 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 all these questions, I actually counted 874 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 them and realized there are only 33 875 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 questions, instead of 36. I just 876 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 naturally assumed these four questions 877 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are actually one and answer them as such, 878 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but no. Buzzfeed actually considered this 879 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 compound question as a bunch of seperate 880 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 questions, in order to bolster their count 881 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for their deceptive, click baiting title. 882 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Like it wasn't bad enough that they're 883 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 already not even questions. Anyway, this 884 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 has been pointed out countless times by 885 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 countless other people, but the wage gap 886 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is bullshit, and when I say it's bullshit 887 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't mean that it doesn't exist. 888 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I mean it's bullshit because of the way 889 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it's presented. The observed wage gap it 890 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 based on comparing the average income of 891 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men to the average income of women without 892 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 considering any variables. Sometimes when 893 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the wage gap is brought up they add women 894 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 get paid less for the same jobs, but 895 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that's horseshit. Asking women why they 896 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 get paid less than men is like asking why 897 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men are more likely to die in the 898 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 workplace than women. It's because men 899 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and women tend to work different jobs; 900 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and just like some jobs are more dangerous 901 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 than others, some jobs pay more than 902 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 others. And since men tend to work 903 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 higher paying jobs, such as those in STEM 904 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fields, men tend to make more money. 905 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And even when you are comparing men and 906 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women working the same jobs, there are 907 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 things which factor into why men get paid 908 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 more. Such as the fact that men are more 909 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to work overtime, or more likely 910 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to ask for raises or promotions, or less 911 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to take time off, or more 912 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 competitive, or more likely to take risks, 913 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 prioritize earnings more than women, 914 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 retire at a later age, and all these other 915 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 things which studies have found. With all 916 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this taken into consideration, it's no 917 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wonder that men get paid more, men work 918 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 more. And really I hate to point out this 919 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 obvious bit of common sense, but if 920 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 companies could actually get away with 921 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 paying women less, don't you think they 922 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 would just hire nothing but women to save 923 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 money. Do you honestly think that 924 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 corporations are such boys clubs that 925 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 giving advantages to men is more important 926 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to them than their profits and shareholder 927 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 interests. Don't be stupid. And no the 928 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fact that there are so few women in STEM 929 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fields has nothing to do with 930 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 discrimination. In fact, surveys have 931 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 found that there is a 2 to 1 preference 932 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for female applicants in STEM fields 933 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 over equally qualified men. So the reason 934 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that there are so few women in STEM 935 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fields is because few women are interested 936 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in pursuing careers in STEM fields. If you 937 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 want more women in STEM fields, then maybe 938 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you shouldn't have wasted your parents 939 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 money on a degree in gender studies. 940 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And if you wish to continue pushing this 941 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 baseless contention that the patriarchy 942 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is keeping women out of STEM fields, then 943 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 explain why the patriarchy isn't stopping 944 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women from dominating certain fields 945 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 such as veterinary, medicine, psychology, 946 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pharmacology, and biology. Furthermore, 947 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 which is it, 77 cents to a dollar or 68 948 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 cents. I've also heard other feminists 949 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 claim 72 cents. The fact that you can't 950 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 keep your story straight kind of says 951 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 something about it. And I'm really 952 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 struggling to understand why you thought 953 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 including this discrepancy in your video 954 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 was a good idea. Maybe you should have 955 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 let a man proofread it. (whispering) that 956 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 was a joke. I know I have to explain it 957 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because feminists don't understand jokes, 958 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but it was a joke, alright. 959 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you intimidated by a woman who 960 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 makes more money than you? That's 961 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 awesome! More money" 962 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm not, but since we're making 963 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assumptions, why are you intimidated 964 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 by my deep, booming, commanding, yet 965 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sultry baritone voice. 966 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are opiniated women seen as bitches?" 967 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "When opiniated men are seen as bosses." 968 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Opiniated men aren't seen as bosses unless 969 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 they actually are somebody's boss. 970 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Otherwise they are just called assholes. 971 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Unless of course their opinions disagree 972 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with you. In which case they are kicked 973 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 off of campus, banned from speaking at 974 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 events, and told to stop mansplaining. 975 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe that's why opiniated women like you 976 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are seen as bitches. 977 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why aren't you speaking up when you hear 978 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your male friends behind closed doors, 979 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 make jokes that are offensive to 980 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women?" 981 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because they're jokes, and they aren't 982 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 meant to be taken seriously. 983 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "These people who are fucking offended by 984 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 rape jokes don't even understand humor." 985 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 If that's not a good enough answer, then 986 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 let me ask you this, do you speak up when 987 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your female friends make jokes that are 988 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 offensive to men, no? Why not? Oh because 989 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it's empowering right? Fuck off. Also I 990 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 thought you said you were probably funnier 991 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 than me? You think of yourself as a funny 992 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 woman but you don't want people making 993 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 jokes that don't cater to your own 994 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 personal taste. Stop trying to please 995 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 other people's speech, you empty 996 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 headed bimbo. (Horn blaring) 997 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you so afraid of recognizing 998 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your own privilege? Doesn't mean you're a 999 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bad person, just recognizing it and do 1000 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 something about it." 1001 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I just love how you boldly assert that I 1002 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have privilege without backing up that 1003 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assertion at all. And then pursue to talk 1004 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 down to me in this condescending tone, 1005 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like it's just so obvious it's such an 1006 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 unassailable argument. (mocking voice) 1007 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It doesn't mean you're a bad person. 1008 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But I guess being the same gender as 1009 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Donald Trump does. To answer your 1010 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 question, it's because I don't have 1011 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 privilege, I really don't, but you do. 1012 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I defy you name one, just one, legal 1013 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 privilege that I have, which you don't 1014 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 also have. Because I can think of several 1015 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you have which I don't have. Let me list 1016 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ten. Women are almost always granted 1017 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 custody of children in a divorce by 1018 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 default unless the man can prove she is 1019 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 unfit to care for them. See 1020 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 misrepresentation of gender bias 1021 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 committee of Massachusetts Supreme Court 1022 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 by Mark B Rosenthal, this is despite 1023 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the fact that children are twice as 1024 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to be abused by their mother than 1025 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 they are by their father. According to 1026 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 page 49 of Child Maltreatment 2013 1027 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 published by the US Department of Health 1028 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and Human Services. Women have more 1029 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 social safety nets designed for them, 1030 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 which is why they only make up 24% of 1031 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the homeless population. This is in spite 1032 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the fact that 42% of homeless men are 1033 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 employed, versus only 27% of homeless 1034 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women. This is according to page 2 of 1035 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Who's Homeless" published by the National 1036 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Coalition for the Homeless, July 2009 and 1037 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 page 1 of "Single Males: The Homeless 1038 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Majority" published by Healing Hands 1039 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in June 2001. Women get more lenient 1040 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sentences for equivalent crimes. See 1041 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Estimating Gender Disparities in Federal 1042 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Criminal Cases" by Sonja B Starr in 2012. 1043 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A woman could get a male coworker fired 1044 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 from his job simply by accusing him of 1045 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sexual harassment even without proving it. 1046 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It's so easy for a woman to get a man 1047 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fired at a malice, and it happens so 1048 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 often that men are now starting to avoid 1049 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women all together in the workplace. 1050 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Refusing to mentor or help them. 1051 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Kim Elsesser talks about this in her book, 1052 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Sex in the office" 2015. In California, a 1053 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 woman can declare a man to be the father 1054 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of her child and sue him for child 1055 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 support and it's up to the man to prove 1056 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he isn't the father by taking a DNA test. 1057 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And he only gets 30 days to do so, if he 1058 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 doesn't do it in that time, then a court 1059 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 can declare him responsible for the child 1060 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 even if he proves he isn't the father 1061 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 later. A woman can sue a sperm donner for 1062 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 child support. A woman who gets 1063 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pregnant with stolen sperm, can sue the 1064 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 man she stole it from for child support. 1065 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And before you argue that a man should 1066 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 keep it in his pants so he doesn't want to 1067 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 be a father, imagine if you heard a 1068 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 conservative Christian arguing against 1069 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 abortion by saying 'women should keep 1070 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 their legs together if they don't want to 1071 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 be mothers' I think you would lose your 1072 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 shit. A woman who get pregnant by raping 1073 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a man or an underage boy can sue him for 1074 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 child support. See Hermesmann V Seyer. 1075 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A woman could get an abortion in 1076 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 complete disregard for the wishes of the 1077 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 father, she doesn't even have to tell 1078 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 she's seeking an abortion. A woman can 1079 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 also sue the father for child support if 1080 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he wants nothing to do with the child. 1081 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So basically a woman can opt out of 1082 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 parenthood but a man cannot. 1083 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Domestic violence against women is 1084 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 actually taken seriously. Men are always 1085 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 presumed to be the aggressors in 1086 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 domestic violence cases. Despite the fact 1087 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that CDC statistics have found that more 1088 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 than 70% of non reciprocated domestic 1089 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 violence is perpetuated by women. 1090 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Even when a man is recognized as a being 1091 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a victim of domestic abuse, he is almost 1092 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 always presumed to be at fault. 1093 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 People ask 'What did he do to piss her 1094 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 off?' 1095 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So let me pose a question to you, Why are 1096 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you so afraid of recognizing your 1097 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 privilege? It doesn't mean you're a bad 1098 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 person. Just recognize it and do something 1099 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 about it. Or don't, I already know you 1100 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 won't.