0:00:00.000,0:00:01.128 (beep) 0:00:03.271,0:00:12.470 (screaming) 0:00:12.470,9:59:59.000 (jazzy intro) 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 How does it feel to be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the same sex as Donald Trump? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 How does it feel to be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the same sex as Sarah Palin? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 How does it feel to be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the same sex as Michelle Bachman? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 How does it feel to be the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 same sex as anybody you disagree with? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Why does it even matter 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 whether or not you're the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 same gender as somebody else? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I mean, I'm also the same 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 gender as Abraham Lincoln, Einstein, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and the guy who introduced 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 chocolate to the Western world. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So what are you even getting 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 at with this question? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Are you trying to say Donald Trump 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 is bad, and Donald Trump 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 is a man, therefore men are bad? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Why do you hate rom-coms? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Or do you just feel like you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 need to hate them? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Everybody likes The Notebook, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 everybody likes Beyoncé. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's just a fact. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Men hate romantic comedies 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 for the same reason you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 hate video games with 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 over-sexualized female characters. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The men in these movies are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 always willing to sacrifice 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 their careers, their dreams, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 even their lives to win 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the lead females' affection. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Now I don't have any empirical 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 data to back this up, but 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it seems to me that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 romantic comedies and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 romance movies in general 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 cause women to have unrealistic 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 expectations of men and what 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 love should be like, and these 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 become the expectations 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that men have to live up to, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and it's unfair. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Feminists like to bitch 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 about poor representation of women 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 in media intended for men 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because they promote body issues 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and shit like that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And I agree, to at least, an extent 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But it's not any better for men 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 When we're expected to be Prince Charming, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 ready and willing to sacrifice themselves 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 physically, mentally, and emotionally 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And we're called selfish for daring to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 have our own desires 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or even misogynistic for daring to draw 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 attention to our own problems. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 These movies appeal to the female fantasy 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of having a night in shining armor 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 swear their entire existence to pleasing 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 them, and thus reinforce these notions 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 within their target audience of women 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 like you that you somehow deserve 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to have your boyfriends and husbands 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 give up everything that makes them 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who they are and basically dehumanize 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 themselves for your pleasure and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 devote 100% of their time and energy 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to you. The fact that some of you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 watching this are scoffing at what I 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 just said only proves my point. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You have fooled yourself into thinking 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that I'm somehow the one whose being 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 selfish when I object to the notion 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that men should be expected to cave 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 into all of your demands, for the sake of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 your perverted idealistic conception 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of love. And I have no doubts that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 some of you will accuse me of being 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 bitter at some ex girlfriend for saying 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that, but I'm not and I will 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 pre-emptively characterize such an 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 argument as out cropping of the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 very mentality that I'm talking about. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You expect all of your demands to be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 catered to, and any man who is unwilling 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or unable to cater to them must have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 something wrong with them. Us men are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 human beings with our own interests and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 goals, and it's selfish for you to expect 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 us to give all that up for you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But these movies condition you to expect 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 exactly that. And that is why we hate 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 romantic comedies. We don't see anything 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 romantic about them. What we see is the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 reinforcement of unfair and unreasonable 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 expectations about what we should be doing 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 with our own lives. Also, fuck Beyonce. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you make women sit around and talk 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 about men in movies when y'all easily just 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sit around and talk about boobs for hours? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 One, I don't know, maybe you should be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 asking that to people who rent romantic 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 comedies you like so much, because 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 those are the movies which have women 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sitting around talking about men. Or, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 better yet, instead of complaining about 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 how writers depict women in their movies, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 maybe you should try being the change you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 want to see and write your own damn movie. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Then you could make the female characters 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sit around and talk about whatever you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 want. Like how men are oppressing them, or 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 how men are objectifying them or how men 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are such pigs, or how men spread their 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 legs too far apart on the subway, or how 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 men hate romantic comedies. There's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 nothing stopping you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Two, you're referring to the Bechdel Test, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 which is bullshit. All the Twilight movies 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 pass the Bechdel Test, but I think you'd 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 hesitate to call any of those movies 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "pro-feminist." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Three, I don't know a single guy who ever 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 talks about boobs for hours at a time. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think the only guys who do are medical 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 students learning how to conduct 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 mammograms. You want to know what most of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the men I know talk about? Movies, video 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 games, politics, religion, music, sports, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 cars, boats, technology, work, guns, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 hunting, places they've been to, people 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 they've met, and so on. The subject of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 boobs actually rarely ever comes up. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Contrary to what you may have been told in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 your Women's Studies class, men don't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 think about sex constantly. If we did, we 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 would never have invented the camera 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 equipment you used to make this video. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Four. If anybody's talking about boobs for 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 hours at a time, it's feminists. You're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the ones who are always whining about 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the designs of fictional characters, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 complaining that fat girls' tits are too 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 big. And in all honesty, the only time I 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 ever even think about a comic book 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 character's tits is when I hear a feminist 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 bring it up. So I think maybe you're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 projecting. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you automatically assume that you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 won't like the TV or movies that star a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 female lead?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't. In fact, some of my favorite 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 movies and TV shows have female leads. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't know a single man who has ever 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 scoffed at the notion of watching a movie 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or TV show just because it has a female 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 protagonist. However, I have seen 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 feminists scoff at anything with a male 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 lead. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why are you surprised when women are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 funny?" "I'm probably funnier than you!" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm not surprised when women are funny. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There are plenty of funny women out there. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 [names not recognized], et cetera. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But I will say that, in general, women are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 not as funny as men, and I think most 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women won't agree with that statement. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I also think there's a reason for this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 See if you understand what humor is 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and how it works, which I'm guessing 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you don't because you're feminists, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 then you know that the things that make 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 laugh often have their roots in very dark 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 subject matter. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 To quote the amazing atheist, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "These people who are fucking offended 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 by rape jokes don't even understand 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 humor. They don't understand- They 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 think of humor as like a happy thing, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because humor makes us laugh and laughter 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 makes us happy, but a lot of the time 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 they don't seem to notice that what we're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 actually laughing at is quite dark and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 morbid. Like if you actually look at it 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and examine the jokes, and look at the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 exaggeration and try to figure out the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 mechanics of how the joke works, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 why does it work; you're gonna find that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a lot of jokes have their genesis in pain 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and suffering. Because laughter is this 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 great transcendent tool we have, where 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 we can take something that- that's bitter 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and difficult to comprehend or deal with, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and make it something funny. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Like if I take a joke like "How many 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 police officers does it take change a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 light bulb?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "None, they just beat the room for being 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 black." you know that joke has it's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 genesis in some very serious, very dark 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 shit. And that joke is not making light 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of the fact that people have suffered, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or it's not making light of the fact that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 people, you know, marched in the Civil 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Rights Movement, or- or that people are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 racial discriminated against, or police 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 brutality. It's not making light of any 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of that. What it's doing is it's taking 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that pain and it's taking that dark 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 subject matter, and it's helping us 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 transcend it for a moment. And view 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the absurdity of our circumstance. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Because that is what humor is supposed to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 do. Humor at it's best takes the elements 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of the world that are dark and horrible, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and shows you there absurdity. It shows 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you the absurdity of the human condition. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and that is important." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 See men are socially conditioned to not 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 talk openly and honestly about their 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 feelings, which I'll talk more about 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 later, and that's why we cultivate a sense 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of humor. The only way we can really talk 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 about the things that upset us is if 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 we do it through the filter of comedy. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But women have the clears throat 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "privilege" to not be subject to social 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 conditioning, and so they don't feel the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 need to cultivate a sense of humor. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And that's why women, in general, aren't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 as funny and men. That isn't to say that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 all men are funny, or that all women are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 unfunny. It's just that in general men are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 funnier than women. I'm sorry but that's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 how it is. Also no- I'd rather strongly 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 doubt that you're funnier than me. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And it's not because you're a women. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Just judging by how you look and talk, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm willing to bet that your sense of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 humor boils down to saying something rude, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and then following it with "Just kidding". 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I mean I'm not the funniest person in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the world but if you think of yourself 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 as the funny one, you probably lack the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 objectivity to realizing that everybody 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 else in your circle of friends probably 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 thinks of you as the "annoying one". 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Just kidding, actually I'm not. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you think we're obsessed with you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 when we hook up?" "Nine times out of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 ten, I just want you to leave too, I'm 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 busy, I got shit to do." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Probably because you do shit like text 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 us 50 times in the space of one hour, and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 slash our tires when we dump you after you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 accuse us of cheating because you saw our 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sister's name in our call history. Also 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 what shit could you possibly have to do? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Pluck your eyebrows to the point 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 where they're so unnaturally clean around 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the edges that they look like they're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 drawn on? Spend your husband's money 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 on more frumpy sweaters? Buy a tub of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Ben & Jerry's and watch Glee? Or write 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 more questions for men to answer 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because you're so lacking in self 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 awareness that you can't figure out the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 answers for yourself? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why can't I sleep as many people as I 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 want to without being judged? When men do 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it, they're congratulated" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Go ahead and sleep with as many 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 people as you want. I don't give a shit, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but once again I don't know anybody who 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 would. The only time I would care is if I 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 was dating you, because if you told me 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you've been with 20 other guys before 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I met you, I would naturally assume that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 there was something wrong with you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 if you've been in so many relationships 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and have them all fail. Not to mention the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 fact that your substantially more 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 likely to be carrying an STD. And I think 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it's perfectly reasonable for a woman to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 view men who have slept with a lot of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 other women the same way. Also who's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 congratulating men for sleeping around? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't see any guys walking around with 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 trophies for fucking everyone they've 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 met. It's not like having sex with easy 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women is some kind of achievement. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Furthermore, I would say that most media 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 portrays men who do that as assholes 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who should be looked at with content. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I mean -name not recognized- isn't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 exactly portrayed as a model citizen. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 By the way studies have found that the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 majority of people who slut shame women, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are other women. Maybe you should be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 directing this question at them and not 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 men. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you consider a woman a tease, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 if she does sleep with you after three 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 dates, but a slut if she sleeps with you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 on the first date?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Why do you consider a man a douchebag if 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 he doesn't call you back three days after 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 he meets you, but desperate if he calls 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you the next day? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "In what world does no mean yes?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "No means no." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't know anybody who thinks no 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 means yes. Also this question seems to be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 in the spirit of the feminist notion that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 all men are potential rapists. Which 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 simply isn't true. I already talked about 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 this at length in my other video, "'Teach 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 men not to rape' is a stupid rhetoric". 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Moving on. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you say that women are too 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 emotional to be leaders" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 whispering: maybe if feminist argued 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 with logics instead of feelings, people 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 wouldn't think that. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Then justify cat calling by saying 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 'men just can't control themselves'" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've never heard a man say either, I have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 hear women say both though. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you think that just because 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you're nice to me, I owe you my body?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Why do you think that just because I'm 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 nice to you that I want your body. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Sometimes I've been walking down the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 street, hysterically crying because my cat 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 was missing, and a man came up and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 was like 'Hey what's up, why are you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 crying? Can I talk to you?' 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "But I want to continue this, so when 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the guy up to you and asked you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 how you were doing, did you judge his 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 intentions, or do you feel like-" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I was like what the hell is wrong with 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you I'm hysterically crying, holding 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 flyers that say missing cat." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Wait what if he was checking how you were 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 doing because you were crying?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "No he was- It was a catcall, it was like 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a 'Hey pretty lady, like what's going on-" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "What if he was trying to be sweet to get 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 into you, like 'hey pretty lady, why are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you crying?'" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "He's not entitled to my time, honestly" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "If he had not said anything to you, then 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 he's a dick because he's a guy in society 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who saw a girl crying and didn't do 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 anything." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "But it's a different- If he's saying that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to get my number, that's different that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 him coming up and saying 'Whats 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 wrong, if I see your cat around, I'll let 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you know. Like that's a different thing" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "But how is he going to know about your 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 cat, he saw a girl crying on the street" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Well, it was just- I was hanging up the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 flyers." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Now I'll now if I ever see a girl crying 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 on the street, and she's hysterical and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 she might've just lost her parents and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 has nobody, I shouldn't go up to her 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because she might think I'm objectify her" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "She doesn't know you. She doesn't know 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "But we're humans, we should care about 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 each other." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Of course, of course, but I think you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 have to understand what you come off 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 as to women. They don't know you. It's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 like if a brown bear came up and said 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 hello to you. Like you just have to like-" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why would you ever send an unsolicited 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 dick pic?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I wouldn't. If you didn't give out your 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 phone number to the types of guys you meet 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 in night clubs, you know the type of guys 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who go to such clubs for the specific 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 purpose of meeting women, and who read 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 books about how to be a pick up artist; 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 maybe you wouldn't be getting dick pics 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 from them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you feel like it's okay to harrass 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women, or make offensive comments about 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women, but when somebody does it to your 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sister, it's not okay?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Why do you feel like it's okay to make 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 these misandrist videos which paint all 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 men as sexual harassers or rapists, but 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 when somebody treats your son that way, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it's not okay? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "How does it feel to interrupt me when 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm in the middle of making a point 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 during a meetings?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You make it sound like the only people 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who have ever interrupted you are men. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I smell confirmation bias. Hey have you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 ever stopped to think that maybe people 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 interrupt you because they realize you're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 talking shit and wasting time after only 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 two sentences. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you have to sit with your legs 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so wide open?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I get that you have balls, but I don't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 stand around with my arms wide open 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to make room for my boobs." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe that's because your boobs don't get 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 squished between your arms when you stand 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 normally with your arms down by your 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sides. A man's balls are literally between 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 his legs, and they do get squished if he 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 puts his legs together. It's not exactly 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 an apt comparison. Furthermore, why 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 do you even care? I don't see you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 complaining about women taking up 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 two seats with their bags. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why are women perceived as the weaker 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sex? Even though we literally birth you, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 like watermelons through like 'this'" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Because physical strength has nothing to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 do with your ability to give birth. Women 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are, generally speaking, not as physically 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 strong as men. The average man has about 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 50% greater upper body strength than the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 average woman. I'm sorry but that's just 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 simple biology. There's also the fact 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that men are by in large the one's who go 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to war and fight and die to protect you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Men are the ones who work the dangerous 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 jobs to make your comfortable lifestyle in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the industrialized world possible. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And historically men are also the ones 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who have gone out into the unforgiving 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 wilderness to kill dangerous animals so 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 ungrateful entitled women like you could 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 eat. You as a woman are substantially less 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 likely to die during your daily activities 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and you don't have to worry about being 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 called a deadbeat for not risking life in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a factory or field for the benefit of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 others. Nor do you have to worry about 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 being told you don't have a real job 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because you work with computers or push 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 pencils in a safe, clean environment. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Women work soft cushy jobs compared to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 men and that's why women make only 7% of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 workplace fatalities despite making up 47% 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of the work force. That is why you're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 perceived as the weaker sex. If you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 don't want people to see you that way, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 then get out of your comfortable air 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 conditioned studio and go work on a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 craving boat on a coal mine. You're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 always complaining about employment 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 discrimination, so go ahead, take the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 dirty dangerous jobs and show us all just 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 how strong and tough you are. And look 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't begrudge women for working jobs 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that don't put them in danger and I will 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 freely admit that my job isn't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 particularly dangerous; but if you're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 going to sit there and act like women 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are stronger than men just because you can 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 give birth, something which you have a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 0.0002 percent chance of dying from if you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 live in the United States, and that's up 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 from 15 years ago, then you can fuck right 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 off. By the way passing a kidney stone 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 hurts more than giving birth. Any woman 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who has experienced both will tell you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that, and men get them more often so 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 blow me. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why is it so bad to show your emotions?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "It means you're human." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe it's because feminists like you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 tell us we're misogynists for even 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 daring to complain about our problems. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Since you're not a man and you don't have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 even the slightest inclining of what it's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 like to be a man, let me spell it out for 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you. Boys are socially conditioned from 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the day we learn to talk to not express 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 our feelings. We are [unknown] constantly 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 be told to man up and that boys don't cry. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We don't have the privilege of showing 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 our emotions because if we do, it's a sign 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of weakness. To put it simply, us men are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 programmed to believe that our own 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 feelings are invalid, and so we hide them 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and we lie about them. We are raised to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 expect that if we tell you our feelings, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you will shoot them down. You will tell 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 us we're wrong for feeling the way we do, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and even if you don't, we still don't want 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to tell you our feelings because 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 we know you'll use them against us. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You're probably thinking that you don't do 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that but you do, you do it all the time 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and don't even realize it. Ask yourself if 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you have ever had an argument 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 with one of them men in your life and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you told them "If you were a real man..." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If you ever have then you have done 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 exactly what I'm talking about. See no 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 woman has ever been told "If you're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a real woman you wouldn't feel this way" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Women have their feelings cultivated and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 coddled. You're not only allowed to cry. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you are expected to, and when you do, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 people around you give you sympathy and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you are comforted. You are so used to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 getting sympathy that you feel entitled 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to it. Men don't have that luxury. A man 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 fully expects to be looked down upon, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and told that his feelings don't matter if 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 he shows any sign of emotional weakness. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Even by the people he trusts most, because 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that is what he has experienced for 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 his entire life, and you wonder why the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 suicide rate for men is four times higher 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 than it is for women. I know what you're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 going to say, you're going to say that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the social conditioning of men to not 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 show their emotions is part of the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 patriarchy, and feminism is fighting to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 change that. Good, what heroes you are, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 let me give you a little golf clap while 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you take a sip from your fucking 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 'Male Tears' mug while sitting in the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 comfort of your safe space, where 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 men aren't allowed. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why are you always trying to prove your 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 masculinity?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 See my answer to the previous question. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Also wow, how egocentric are you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You are so certain that the world 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 revolves around you that you believe that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 when a man is acting like a man, that he 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 must be trying to prove something to you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Like he couldn't possibly be acting like a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 man just because he's, you know, a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 fucking man. Why are you constantly trying 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to prove your femininity to me? How 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 bout that? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why the fuck isn't it lady like to cuss? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 When did words get gendered?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's also not considered gentlemen like 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to curse. Swearing is generally 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 considered rude regardless of the gender 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of the person who is doing it. Personally 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't give a shit if you use 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 profanity. Go right the fuck ahead. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And when did words get genered? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I guess right around the time the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 word feminist was invented, which is 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 at self a gendered word. I'm mean the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 invention of feminism is when everything 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 suddenly became gendered. Like when assert 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that interrupting people is somehow a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 uniquely male behavior, or that only 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women get told not to swear. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why is it your first instinct to doubt 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women who have been sexually violated or 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 raped?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe a false rape accusation weren't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 systemically encouraged by feminism, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 we wouldn't have a problem. Notice how 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 this question is phrased, to doubt women 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who have been sexually violated or raped. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The more salient question would be, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 'Why do you doubt women who claim to have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 been sexually violated or raped. And the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 answer is because we have this thing 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 called the presumption of innocence. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That means a person who is accused of a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 crime is innocent until proven guilty. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So it's not my first instinct to doubt, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it's my moral imperative to doubt until 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 evidence is forthcoming. You wouldn't put 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 somebody in jail just because somebody 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 accused them of murder nor would you put 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 them in jail just because somebody accused 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 them of theft, nor would you put them in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 jail because somebody accused them of any 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 other crime. Why should accusations of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 rape be held to a different standard? This 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 really isn't a difficult concept to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 understand, and it both baffles me and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 disturbs me how often I see feminists 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 failing to grasp this. For people who 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 claim to fight for social justice, you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 really don't understand how justice works, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 do you? See a man who its accused of rape, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 will have his life ruined. That's not even 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 only if he is convicted, the mere 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 accusation is enough to cost him his job, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 his relationships, his education and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 career prospects, his home, his 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 reputation, and so on. If a woman wants 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to ruin a man's life all she has to do is 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 accuse him of raping her and he will be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 put through the ringer by law enforcement 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and the media; and even if he is found not 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 guilty, the damage will have already been 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 done and the woman who made the false 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 accusation will get away scot free. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Really it astonishes me that even after 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 what happened at Duke and the University 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of Virginia, that you're still asking 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 this question. Furthermore, feminists 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 have abused the word rape to point where 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 its lost all meaning. Everything is rape. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Its gotten to the point where if a woman 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 claims she was raped I have to wonder 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 if she means a guy actually forcibly put 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 his penis in her, or if she had 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 consensual sex and just decided to call it 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 rape when she decided she regretted it the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 next morning, or if she's merely 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 complaining that a guy looked at her in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a way that made her feel uncomfortable. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I mean what even is rape at this point? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 According to some feminists, it's rape if 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a man changed positions during sex without 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 forewarning. It's rape if your boyfriend 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 breaks up with you because you cheated on 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 him. It's rape if you overhear somebody 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 calling somebody else a slut. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I got raped, when my mother called 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 someone else's daughter a slut." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Really it's your own damn fault that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 people are becoming increasingly reluctant 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to believe rape accusations, because you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 have expanded the definition so broadly, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that nobody even knows when you're really 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 talking about rape anymore. You did this, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you asked for it, and now you have buyers 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 remorse. Now let me pose a question to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you, why is it your first instinct to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 doubt when a man says he was sexually 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 violated or raped by a woman. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you assume a woman is angry 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because she's on her period?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Because women get angry when they're on 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 their period. It's a scientific fact that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the hormonal changes a woman experiences 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 during her period cause her to become 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 irritable. This is called premenstrual 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 syndrome, or PMS. However, I don't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 always assume a woman is angry because 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 she is on her period. If your boyfriend 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 thinks that, then maybe it's because 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you're not being straight forward with him 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and expecting him to be a mind reader. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe you should try telling him why 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you're angry. Ever thought about that? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Ever thought about simply telling him that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you're mad that he ate the last 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Klondike bar or whatever trivial bullshit 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you're getting your panties in twist over. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 [mocking voice] "Awe he should just be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 able to figure it out" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Yeah like you should be able to figure out 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the answers to these stupid questions 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you're asking. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do you think women that wear makeup 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are false advertising, we can say the same 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 thing about your dick size." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You actually answered the question 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 yourself. We consider it false 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 advertising for the same reason that you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 think a man who stuffs the crotch of his 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 pants is false advertising. If you cover 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 up all your pimples and scars with makeup 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you can't really be surprised when he's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 taken aback upon discover that you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 don't really look the way you did when you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 first met. I mean wouldn't you feel like 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you were lied to if you met a guy who 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 looked well dressed and drove a nice car, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but then you found out that he got his 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 clothes at goodwill, and he rented that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 car with his burger king salary. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why isn't it weird that there's a bunch 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of old white men sitting in a room, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 making legislation about what I can and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 can't do with my body?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Wasn't it a room full of old white men 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that decided the Roe v. Wade ruling. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You know, women have had the right to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 vote for almost a hundred years now, and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 polling data has found that women are more 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 likely to vote than men; and yet these 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 old white men keep getting elected. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And I see a lot of you people supporting 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Bernie Sanders even though he looks pretty 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 fuckin old and white to me. Go figure. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Furthermore, why does it even matter that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 they're white? Why does their melanin 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 level matter more than the merit of their 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 ideas? Wasn't it Martin Luther King Jr. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who once said "I have a dream that my 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 four little children will one day live in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a nation where they will not be judge by 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the color of their skin, but by the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 content of their character." For as much 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 as you people like to accuse other of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 being racist, you sure do judge people 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 based on their race a lot. Oh but it's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 not racism when you do it because of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 power structures or some other mental 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 gymnastic bullshit, right? As if whether 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or not the prejudice somebody is being 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 subjected to is institutionalized makes 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 any difference to them when it happens. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Fuck off. Racism is racism, regardless of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who is doing it to whom. Calling it 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 something other than racism doesn't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 change the fact that it's fucking racism; 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And the only people who think otherwise 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are racist like you. This mentality that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 only certain people can be racist hinges 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 on the categorization of people based on 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 their ethnicity, and the ascribing of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 attributes to them such as privilege, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 based on those racial categories. You 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 have to make judgements based on race to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 make this argument work, you have to make 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 assumptions and generalization about their 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 race and origin to make those judgments. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So you have to be racist to use this 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 argument, how do you not see the problem 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 with this, how do you not see the problem 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 with putting people's race before the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 merits of their argument and categorizing 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 people into a hierarchy of consideration 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 based on their race. How the fuck do you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 expect to fight racism with racism, and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 then expect people to take you seriously. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe this is the reason why you think 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that if somebody thinks that you're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 stupid it must be because you're a woman. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You're projecting, you judge other people 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 based on their race and gender so you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 assume other people are doing it to you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Well I've got news for you, I don't think 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you're stupid because you're a woman, I 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 think you're stupid because you're stupid. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Anyway I'm getting off topic, it's not 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 like they don't also tell me what I can't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 do with my body. For example, I can't take 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the palm of my hand and slap some sense 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 into you, without being considered 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 assault. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Do you have a coochie?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 No. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why are straight guys so obsessed with 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 lesbians?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Why are straight women so obsessed with 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 gay guys? Or better yet, why are women 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so obsessed with lesbians? According to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Porn hub search data for 2014, the number 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 one thing women search for was lesbian 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 porn. Proportionately women look up 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 lesbian porn more than men do. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "How does it feel to get kicked in the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 balls?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 How do you think it feels, you dumb 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 bitch? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Do you ever get tired of being manly all 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the time?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Do you? You're the one that's dressed like 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a lumberjack. To answer the question, no, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 not really. It comes naturally to me 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 since I'm, you know, a man. The fact 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that you're asking this question implies 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that you sometimes get tired of being 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 feminine, so do you ever get tired of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 being feminine all the time? Is that why 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you're dressed like a lumberjack? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Would you like to be a man? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Well you have to pass a test first. Have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you mastered the art of manspreading? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Have you completed your forty hours of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 rape training? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why are you so afraid of gender 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 equality?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm not. You are. What I'm afraid of is 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 gender inequality. Which is what feminist 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are actually pushing for. You want 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 examples? In 2005, Swedish Politian and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 co-founder of feminist initiative, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Godrum Schyman, proposed what the media 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 called a man tax, which would have raised 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 taxes for men in Sweden. Basing it on the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 idea that all men should be held 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 accountable for all man on women violence. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It should be noted that Schyman was 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 convicted of tax evasion in 2004, a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 year before making this proposal. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 In 2010, women's group leaders in Isreal 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 have unanimously opposed changes to rape 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 laws that would make it possible for 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women to be convicted of rape. They 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 succeeded and now women in Israel commit 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sex act on non-consenting adults or 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 children who are not old enough to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 legally give informed consent, are not 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 actually being charged with rape, and are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 instead charged with lesser crimes. In 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 2013 Indian feminists successfully 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 pressured the government to rewrite rape 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 laws in such a way that only men could be 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 charged with rape. In 2014, Jessica 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Valenti published an article in the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Guardian advocating paying men less than 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women. In 2015, York University planned to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 hold an international men's day meant to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 highlight issues affecting men and boys, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 such as the high suicide rate, shorter 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 life expectancies, and struggles faced in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 getting and education. It was canceled 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 after feminists student, staff, and alumni 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 protested and held a petition to ban it, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 which received almost 200 signatures. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 To add insult to injury, Holly Baxter 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 wrote a condescending article on 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Independent.co.uk enlightening readers 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 why we don't need an international men's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 day. You can claim the definition of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 feminism is advocating gender equality 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 all you want, but actions speak louder than 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 words. And it's really hard to believe the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 feminist movement is really a movement 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 for equality, when you dismiss anyone who 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 brings up men's issues as misogynists. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You say all men are rapists, you try to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 ban men from certain place son college 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 campuses, you actively fight against 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 father's rights, undermine the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 presumption of innocence when it comes 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to rape accusations, and you deny 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 statistics about male victims of domestic 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 abuse. As well as protest and disrupt 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 conferences about male suicide. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "This is what mens' rights looks like" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "This is what mens' rights looks like" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "This is what mens' rights looks like" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 All that said, why are you so afraid of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 gender equality? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why do I deserve to be paid less than 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "In what world does 77 cents equal a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 dollar?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "In what world does 68 cents equal a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 dollar?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "How is that fair?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 After I finished writing my answers to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 all these questions, I actually counted 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 them and realized there are only 33 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 questions, instead of 36. I just 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 naturally assumed these four questions 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are actually one and answer them as such, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but no. Buzzfeed actually considered this 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 compound question as a bunch of seperate 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 questions, in order to bolster their count 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 for their deceptive, click baiting title. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Like it wasn't bad enough that they're 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 already not even questions. Anyway, this 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 has been pointed out countless times by 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 countless other people, but the wage gap 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 is bullshit, and when I say it's bullshit 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't mean that it doesn't exist. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I mean it's bullshit because of the way 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it's presented. The observed wage gap it 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 based on comparing the average income of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 men to the average income of women without 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 considering any variables. Sometimes when 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the wage gap is brought up they add women 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 get paid less for the same jobs, but 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that's horseshit. Asking women why they 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 get paid less than men is like asking why 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 men are more likely to die in the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 workplace than women. It's because men 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and women tend to work different jobs; 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and just like some jobs are more dangerous 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 than others, some jobs pay more than 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 others. And since men tend to work 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 higher paying jobs, such as those in STEM 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 fields, men tend to make more money. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And even when you are comparing men and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women working the same jobs, there are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 things which factor into why men get paid 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 more. Such as the fact that men are more 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 likely to work overtime, or more likely 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to ask for raises or promotions, or less 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 likely to take time off, or more 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 competitive, or more likely to take risks, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 prioritize earnings more than women, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 retire at a later age, and all these other 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 things which studies have found. With all 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 this taken into consideration, it's no 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 wonder that men get paid more, men work 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 more. And really I hate to point out this 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 obvious bit of common sense, but if 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 companies could actually get away with 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 paying women less, don't you think they 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 would just hire nothing but women to save 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 money. Do you honestly think that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 corporations are such boys clubs that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 giving advantages to men is more important 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to them than their profits and shareholder 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 interests. Don't be stupid. And no the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 fact that there are so few women in STEM 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 fields has nothing to do with 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 discrimination. In fact, surveys have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 found that there is a 2 to 1 preference 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 for female applicants in STEM fields 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 over equally qualified men. So the reason 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that there are so few women in STEM 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 fields is because few women are interested 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 in pursuing careers in STEM fields. If you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 want more women in STEM fields, then maybe 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you shouldn't have wasted your parents 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 money on a degree in gender studies. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And if you wish to continue pushing this 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 baseless contention that the patriarchy 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 is keeping women out of STEM fields, then 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 explain why the patriarchy isn't stopping 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women from dominating certain fields 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 such as veterinary, medicine, psychology, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 pharmacology, and biology. Furthermore, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 which is it, 77 cents to a dollar or 68 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 cents. I've also heard other feminists 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 claim 72 cents. The fact that you can't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 keep your story straight kind of says 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 something about it. And I'm really 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 struggling to understand why you thought 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 including this discrepancy in your video 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 was a good idea. Maybe you should have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 let a man proofread it. (whispering) that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 was a joke. I know I have to explain it 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because feminists don't understand jokes, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but it was a joke, alright. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why are you intimidated by a woman who 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 makes more money than you? That's 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 awesome! More money" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm not, but since we're making 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 assumptions, why are you intimidated 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 by my deep, booming, commanding, yet 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sultry baritone voice. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why are opiniated women seen as bitches?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "When opiniated men are seen as bosses." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Opiniated men aren't seen as bosses unless 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 they actually are somebody's boss. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Otherwise they are just called assholes. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Unless of course their opinions disagree 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 with you. In which case they are kicked 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 off of campus, banned from speaking at 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 events, and told to stop mansplaining. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe that's why opiniated women like you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are seen as bitches. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why aren't you speaking up when you hear 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 your male friends behind closed doors, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 make jokes that are offensive to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Because they're jokes, and they aren't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 meant to be taken seriously. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "These people who are fucking offended by 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 rape jokes don't even understand humor." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If that's not a good enough answer, then 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 let me ask you this, do you speak up when 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 your female friends make jokes that are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 offensive to men, no? Why not? Oh because 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it's empowering right? Fuck off. Also I 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 thought you said you were probably funnier 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 than me? You think of yourself as a funny 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 woman but you don't want people making 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 jokes that don't cater to your own 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 personal taste. Stop trying to please 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 other people's speech, you empty 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 headed bimbo. (Horn blaring) 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Why are you so afraid of recognizing 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 your own privilege? Doesn't mean you're a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 bad person, just recognizing it and do 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 something about it." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I just love how you boldly assert that I 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 have privilege without backing up that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 assertion at all. And then pursue to talk 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 down to me in this condescending tone, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 like it's just so obvious it's such an 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 unassailable argument. (mocking voice) 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It doesn't mean you're a bad person. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But I guess being the same gender as 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Donald Trump does. To answer your 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 question, it's because I don't have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 privilege, I really don't, but you do. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I defy you name one, just one, legal 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 privilege that I have, which you don't 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 also have. Because I can think of several 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you have which I don't have. Let me list 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 ten. Women are almost always granted 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 custody of children in a divorce by 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 default unless the man can prove she is 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 unfit to care for them. See 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 misrepresentation of gender bias 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 committee of Massachusetts Supreme Court 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 by Mark B Rosenthal, this is despite 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the fact that children are twice as 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 likely to be abused by their mother than 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 they are by their father. According to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 page 49 of Child Maltreatment 2013 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 published by the US Department of Health 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and Human Services. Women have more 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 social safety nets designed for them, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 which is why they only make up 24% of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the homeless population. This is in spite 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of the fact that 42% of homeless men are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 employed, versus only 27% of homeless 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women. This is according to page 2 of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Who's Homeless" published by the National 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Coalition for the Homeless, July 2009 and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 page 1 of "Single Males: The Homeless 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Majority" published by Healing Hands 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 in June 2001. Women get more lenient 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sentences for equivalent crimes. See 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Estimating Gender Disparities in Federal 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Criminal Cases" by Sonja B Starr in 2012. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 A woman could get a male coworker fired 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 from his job simply by accusing him of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sexual harassment even without proving it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's so easy for a woman to get a man 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 fired at a malice, and it happens so 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 often that men are now starting to avoid 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 women all together in the workplace. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Refusing to mentor or help them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Kim Elsesser talks about this in her book, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Sex in the office" 2015. In California, a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 woman can declare a man to be the father 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of her child and sue him for child 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 support and it's up to the man to prove 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 he isn't the father by taking a DNA test. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And he only gets 30 days to do so, if he 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 doesn't do it in that time, then a court 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 can declare him responsible for the child 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 even if he proves he isn't the father 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 later. A woman can sue a sperm donner for 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 child support. A woman who gets 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 pregnant with stolen sperm, can sue the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 man she stole it from for child support. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And before you argue that a man should 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 keep it in his pants so he doesn't want to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 be a father, imagine if you heard a 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 conservative Christian arguing against 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 abortion by saying 'women should keep 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 their legs together if they don't want to 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 be mothers' I think you would lose your 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 shit. A woman who get pregnant by raping 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a man or an underage boy can sue him for 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 child support. See Hermesmann V Seyer. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 A woman could get an abortion in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 complete disregard for the wishes of the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 father, she doesn't even have to tell 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 she's seeking an abortion. A woman can 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 also sue the father for child support if 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 he wants nothing to do with the child. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So basically a woman can opt out of 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 parenthood but a man cannot. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Domestic violence against women is 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 actually taken seriously. Men are always 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 presumed to be the aggressors in 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 domestic violence cases. Despite the fact 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that CDC statistics have found that more 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 than 70% of non reciprocated domestic 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 violence is perpetuated by women. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Even when a man is recognized as a being 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a victim of domestic abuse, he is almost 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 always presumed to be at fault. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 People ask 'What did he do to piss her 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 off?' 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So let me pose a question to you, Why are 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you so afraid of recognizing your 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 privilege? It doesn't mean you're a bad 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 person. Just recognize it and do something 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 about it. Or don't, I already know you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 won't.