How to find the person who can help you get ahead at work

It was the spring of 1988

when I had the aha moment.

I was at my first roundtable,

and for those of you who don't know,

the roundtable was a very
commonly used phrase on Wall Street

to describe the year-end
evaluative process

for analysts, associates, vice presidents,
all the way up to managing directors.

That was the process where they
were discussed behind closed doors

around a table, i.e. the round table,

and everyone was put into a category --

the top bucket, the middle bucket,
the lower bucket --

and then that was translated
into a bonus range

that would be assigned
to each professional.

This was my first time there,
and as I observed,

I saw that there was one person
that was responsible

for recording the outcome
of a conversation.

There were other people in the room
that had the responsibility

of presenting the cases
of all the candidates.

And there were other invited guests
who were supposed to comment

as a candidate's position was presented.

It was interesting to me
that those other people

were folks who were more senior
than the folks that were being discussed

and they theoretically had had
some interaction with those candidates.

Now, I was really excited to be
at this roundtable for the first time,

because I knew that my own process
would go through this same way,

and that my bonus would be
decided in the same way,

so I wanted to know how it worked,

but more importantly,

I wanted to understand
how this concept of a meritocracy

that every company that I talked to
walking out of business school

was selling.

Every time I talked to a company,

they would say, "Our culture,
our process, is a meritocracy.

The way you get ahead in this organization
is that you're smart,

you put your head down
and you work really hard,

and you'll go right to the top.

So here was my opportunity to see
exactly how that worked.

So as the process began,

I heard the recorder
call the first person's name.

"Joe Smith."

The person responsible
for presenting Joe's case did just that.

Three quarters of the way through,
someone interrupted and said,

"This is a great candidate, outstanding,

has great analytical
and quantitative skills.

This is a superstar."

The recorder then said,

"Sounds like Joe
should go in the top bucket."

Second person, Mary Smith.

Halfway through that presentation,
someone said, "Solid candidate.

Nothing really special,
but a good pair of hands."

The recorder said,

"Sounds like Mary
should go in the middle bucket."

And then someone said, "Arnold Smith."

Before the person
could present Arnold's case,

somebody said, "Disaster. Disaster.
This kid doesn't have a clue.

Can't do a model."

And before the case was presented,

the recorder said,

"Sounds like Arnold
should go in the bottom bucket."

It was at that moment
that I clutched my pearls --

(Laughter)

and said, "Who is going to speak for me?"

Who is going to speak for me?

It was that moment that I realized
that this idea of a meritocracy

that every organizations sells
is really just a myth.

You cannot have a 100 percent
meritocratic environment

when there is a human element
involved in the evaluative equation,

because by definition,

that makes it subjective.

I knew at that moment that somebody
would have to be behind closed doors

arguing on my behalf,

presenting content in such a way

that other decision makers
around that table

would answer in my best favor.

That was a really interesting lesson,

and then I said to myself,
"Well, who is that person?

What do you call this person?"

And as I thought about
the popular business terms at the time,

I said, wow, this person
can't be a mentor,

because a mentor's job
is to give you tailored advice,

tailored specifically to you
and to your career aspirations.

They're the ones who give you
the good, the bad and the ugly

in a no-holds-barred way.

OK. Person can't be
a champion or an advocate,

because you don't necessarily
have to spend any currency

to be someone's champion.

You don't necessarily
get invited to the room

behind closed doors if you're an advocate.

It was almost two years later

when I realized what
this person should be called.

I was speaking
at the University of Michigan

to the MBA candidates,

talking about the lessons
that I had learned

after my three short years on Wall Street,

and then it came to me.

I said, "Oh, this person
that is carrying your interest,

or as I like to say,
carrying your paper into the room,

this person who is spending

their valuable political
and social capital on you,

this person who is going
to pound the table on your behalf,

this is a sponsor.

This is a sponsor."

And then I said to myself,

"Well, how do you get a sponsor?

And frankly, why do you need one?"

Well, you need a sponsor, frankly,

because as you can see,

there's not one evaluative process
that I can think of,

whether it's in academia,
health care, financial services,

not one that does not have
a human element.

So that means it has
that measure of subjectivity.

There is a measure of subjectivity
in who is presenting your case.

There is a measure of subjectivity

in what they say

and how they interpret
any objective data that you might have.

There is a measure of subjectivity
in how they say what they're going to say

to influence the outcome.

So therefore, you need to make sure
that that person who is speaking,

that sponsor,

has your best interests at heart

and has the power to get it,
whatever it is for you,

to get it done behind closed doors.

Now, I'm asked all the time,

"How do you get one?"

Well, frankly, nirvana is when
someone sees you in an environment

and decides, "I'm going
to make it happen for you.

I'm going to make sure
that you are successful."

But for many of us in this room,
we know it doesn't really happen that way.

So let me introduce
this concept of currency

and talk to you about how it impacts
your ability to get a sponsor.

There are two types of currency
in any environment:

performance currency
and relationship currency.

And performance currency
is the currency that is generated

by your delivering that
which was asked of you

and a little bit extra.

Every time you deliver upon an assignment
above people's expectations,

you generate performance currency.

It works exactly like the stock market.

Any time a company says to the street

that they will deliver 25 cents a share

and that company delivers
40 cents a share,

that stock goes up, and so will yours.

Performance currency
is valuable for three reasons.

Number one, it will get you noticed.

It will create a reputation for you.

Number two, it will also
get you paid and promoted

very early on in your career

and very early on in any environment.

And number three,
it may attract a sponsor.

Why? Because strong performance currency

raises your level of visibility
in the environment, as I said earlier,

such that a sponsor
may be attracted to you.

Why? Because everybody loves a star.

But if you find yourself in a situation

where you don't have a sponsor,

here's the good news.

Remember that you can exercise
your power and ask for one.

But here's where the other currency
is now most important.

That is the relationship currency,

and relationship currency
is the currency that is generated

by the investments that you make
in the people in your environment,

the investments that you make
in the people in your environment.

You cannot ask someone
to use their hard-earned

personal influential
currency on your behalf

if you've never had
any interaction with them.

It is not going to happen.

So it is important that you invest
the time to connect, to engage

and to get to know the people
that are in your environment,

and more importantly to give them
the opportunity to know you.

Because once they know you,

there's a higher probability
that when you approach them

to ask them to be your sponsor,

they will in fact answer
in the affirmative.

Now, if you're with me and you agree
that you have to have a sponsor,

let's talk about how
you identify a sponsor.

Well, if you're looking for a sponsor,

they need to have
three primary characteristics.

Number one, they need to have
a seat at the decision-making table,

they need to have exposure to your work

in order to have credibility
behind closed doors,

and they need to have some juice,

or let me say it differently,
they'd better have some power.

It's really important
that they have those three things.

And then once you have
identified the person,

how do you ask for one?

The script goes like this.

"Jim, I'm really interested
in getting promoted this year.

I've had an amazing year

and I cannot show this organization
anything else to prove my worthiness

or my readiness for this promotion,

but I am aware that somebody
has to be behind closed doors

arguing on my behalf
and pounding the table.

You know me, you know my work
and you are aware of the client feedback,

and I hope that you will feel comfortable
arguing on my behalf."

If Jim knows you

and you have any kind of a relationship,

there's a very high probability
that he will answer yes,

and if he says yes,

he will endeavor to get it done for you.

But there's also a shot
that Jim might say no,

and if he says no, in my opinion,

there's only three reasons
that he would tell you no.

The first is he doesn't think
that he has enough exposure to your work

to have real credibility
behind closed doors

to be impactful and effective
on your behalf.

The second reason he may tell you no

is that you think
he has the juice to get it done,

but he knows that he does not
have the power to do it

and he is not going to admit that
in that conversation with you.

(Laughter)

And the third reason
that he would tell you no,

he doesn't like you.

He doesn't like you.

(Laughter)

And that's something that could happen.

But even that will be
valuable information for you

that will help to inform
your next conversation with a sponsor

that might make it
a little bit more impactful.

I cannot tell you how important
it is to have a sponsor.

It is the critical relationship
in your career.

A mentor, frankly, is a nice to have,

but you can survive a long time
in your career without a mentor,

but you are not going to ascend
in any organization without a sponsor.

It is so critical that you
should ask yourself regularly,

"Who's carrying my paper into the room?

Who is carrying my paper into the room?"

And if you can't answer
who is carrying your paper into the room,

then I will tell you to divert
some of your hardworking energies

into investing in a sponsor relationship,

because it will be critical
to your success.

And as I close, let me give a word

to the would-be sponsors
that are in the room.

If you have been invited into the room,

know that you have a seat at that table,

and if you have a seat at the table,

you have a responsibility to speak.

Don't waste your power worrying
about what people are going to say

and whether or not they think
you might be supporting someone

just because they look like you.

If somebody is worthy of your currency,

spend it.

One thing I have learned
after several decades on Wall Street

is the way to grow your power
is to give it away,

and your voice is at the heart.

(Applause)

And your voice
is at the heart of your power.

Use it.

Thank you very much.

(Applause)