One way to create a more inclusive school
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0:06 - 0:10At the beginning of fourth grade,
I joined Peer Helpers. -
0:10 - 0:14Peer Helpers is an inclusion program
where students like myself -
0:14 - 0:17can interact with students
in Special Education. -
0:17 - 0:20When I joined, I was looking to try
something new -
0:20 - 0:22because, you see, at my elementary school,
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0:22 - 0:25there's only chess club
and Peer Helpers, -
0:25 - 0:27so my options were pretty limited.
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0:27 - 0:31But the kids that I did see peer helping
looked like they were having tons of fun. -
0:31 - 0:33I mean, they were missing class,
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0:33 - 0:35sitting together at lunch,
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0:35 - 0:37and taking trips.
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0:37 - 0:40I wanted in on that, so I joined.
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0:40 - 0:44At the time, I had no idea I would
eventually be meeting someone -
0:44 - 0:46who would become
one of my closest friends today, -
0:46 - 0:48Henley Hager.
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0:48 - 0:52When I first met Henley and his family,
it was a disaster. -
0:52 - 0:54I vividly remember talking
to Mrs. Hager for the first time, -
0:54 - 0:56and I had no idea what to say.
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0:56 - 0:58It was probably something like,
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0:58 - 1:03"Hey, Mrs. Hager, I'm here
to work with Henley." -
1:03 - 1:06So after I introduced myself to her,
I finally met Henley, -
1:06 - 1:09the boy I was going to be working with.
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1:09 - 1:12At first, I didn't know
what to do or say around Henley. -
1:12 - 1:14You see, Henley has severe autism,
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1:14 - 1:16and I had no experience working with
anyone like that before. -
1:16 - 1:18I'm going to be honest.
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1:18 - 1:21It's not like I just strolled in there
and was already best buddies with him. -
1:21 - 1:24I was nervous,
nervous that I might set him off, -
1:24 - 1:27or nervous that I might do something
to upset him, -
1:27 - 1:28and since we're being honest,
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1:28 - 1:32I was nervous because we as humans
have a tendency to feel uncomfortable -
1:32 - 1:34around people who are different than us.
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1:34 - 1:36Regardless, over the next three years,
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1:36 - 1:40every Wednesday, I went with Henley
to an after-school program -
1:40 - 1:42where we would on social
and academic skills, -
1:42 - 1:43such as organization,
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1:43 - 1:44doing homework,
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1:44 - 1:45physical exercise,
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1:45 - 1:46calming down,
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1:46 - 1:48helping him understand the day's plan,
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1:48 - 1:50not complaining
when he doesn't get his way, -
1:50 - 1:52and engaging in small talk.
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1:52 - 1:55But as long as I've known Henley,
I know what he wants to do, -
1:55 - 1:57play on the computer.
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1:57 - 1:59But we can't always do that.
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1:59 - 2:02So I'll provide other examples
of what we can do, -
2:02 - 2:03like walk around the track,
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2:03 - 2:05use the stationary bike,
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2:05 - 2:06or play basketball.
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2:06 - 2:07He'll answer with yes or no,
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2:07 - 2:09or he's gotten to the point
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2:09 - 2:13where he will politely ask
if we can do this activity instead. -
2:13 - 2:16Over the years, Henley's small talk
has greatly improved -
2:16 - 2:17and it's not just with me,
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2:17 - 2:19it's with every person he interacts with.
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2:19 - 2:21That's one of the goals
of inclusion programs. -
2:21 - 2:25Inclusion programs benefit people
because they develop friendships, -
2:25 - 2:27increase achievement of IEP goals,
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2:27 - 2:30and greater opportunities for enhance
learning are formed. -
2:30 - 2:34But apart from all that,
we would go fun places. -
2:34 - 2:37I remember one time, Henley and I
went to the McWane Science Center -
2:37 - 2:39in Downtown Birmingham.
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2:39 - 2:41We had fun watching the fish,
and stingrays, and sharks. -
2:41 - 2:43But imagine being at the science center
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2:43 - 2:48and hearing two teenage boys cracking up
and giggling over nothing. -
2:48 - 2:50Henley and I can just let out
a quick giggle -
2:50 - 2:52and the laugh attacks begin.
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2:52 - 2:54I have the best time ever
when I'm with him -
2:54 - 2:56and I always look forward
to spending time with him, -
2:56 - 2:58but this trip wasn't me
being his Peer Helper. -
2:58 - 3:02These were just two best friends
hanging out and watching sharks. -
3:02 - 3:04Now, I can talk about how much
I've done with or for Henley, -
3:04 - 3:08but what I really want you to hear
and what rarely gets mentioned -
3:08 - 3:11is the fact that Henley
has also helped me. -
3:11 - 3:13He's helped me become more patient,
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3:13 - 3:16I am better at working with kids
with disabilities, -
3:16 - 3:18and I believe I've become more
compassionate -
3:18 - 3:20toward those different than me.
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3:20 - 3:24So through my interactions with Henley,
I mentioned becoming more patient. -
3:24 - 3:27For example, Henley takes longer
to learn certain concepts, -
3:27 - 3:28to do school work,
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3:28 - 3:30and to respond to certain questions.
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3:30 - 3:33And because of this, I've learned to
repeat myself without getting frustrated, -
3:33 - 3:36or at least making
that frustration visible. -
3:36 - 3:40Somebody should teach my mom that.
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3:40 - 3:42But let me be clear.
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3:42 - 3:46Many times it was frustrating,
but you can't get mad at him -
3:46 - 3:48because he's not intentionally
trying to be difficult. -
3:48 - 3:51He's just taking his time and adjusting
to the task at hand -
3:51 - 3:53the best way he knows how.
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3:53 - 3:55Understanding this has made me
a more patient person -
3:55 - 3:57in all aspects of life.
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3:57 - 3:59And apart from patience,
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3:59 - 4:02I've become better at working
with kids with special needs. -
4:02 - 4:03In your everyday school,
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4:03 - 4:07a majority of students pretend
like students in the Special Ed department -
4:07 - 4:08don't even exist.
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4:08 - 4:10They walk through the halls,
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4:10 - 4:11talk to their friends,
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4:11 - 4:13and ignore those with special needs.
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4:13 - 4:17Rarely do people interact with these
students in a positive and helpful way. -
4:17 - 4:20But I've learned that through
interacting with students like Henley, -
4:20 - 4:23when you ignore those with
special needs, -
4:23 - 4:25you're missing out on a gift.
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4:25 - 4:29So from fourth to seventh grade,
I worked exclusively with Henley, -
4:29 - 4:31and that partnership,
that friendship, -
4:31 - 4:34is one of the best things
that has ever happened to me. -
4:34 - 4:36I have loved working with Henley,
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4:36 - 4:40and becoming a Peer Helper
was one of the best decisions of my life. -
4:40 - 4:43But sadly, not all students
have this opportunity. -
4:43 - 4:48After researching, I was shocked
to find that people with special needs -
4:48 - 4:52do not have enough, if any,
Peer Helpers in their school. -
4:52 - 4:56And what's worse, not all schools
provide enough teachers or teachers' aids -
4:56 - 4:58to students in the special ed department.
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4:58 - 5:00So get ready for this part.
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5:00 - 5:04Many students in the Special Ed department
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5:04 - 5:07don't receive the adequate services
they deserve. -
5:07 - 5:11And of the schools who don't provide
the adequate services to these students, -
5:11 - 5:13I believe the most common reason
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5:13 - 5:15is because they don't have
enough funding or staff, -
5:15 - 5:19but if they're not up to standard,
it's the students who suffer. -
5:19 - 5:22Think of all the kids
with learning disabilities -
5:22 - 5:25and how they need help
to thrive in their learning. -
5:25 - 5:27Without it, jobs may not
be available to them, -
5:27 - 5:29or they may not learn social skills
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5:29 - 5:32needed to live in the environment
we live in today, -
5:32 - 5:33their autonomy won't develop
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5:33 - 5:36and these rich relationships
will not be formed. -
5:36 - 5:38All of these concepts rotate
around each other, -
5:38 - 5:41and are things that I work with
Henley to improve on. -
5:41 - 5:43I can tell that Henley
has greatly improved -
5:43 - 5:46with communicating with
people throughout the years, -
5:46 - 5:49and this is because he's fortunate enough
to live in a community -
5:49 - 5:51that has a very respectable
Special Education program -
5:51 - 5:55with many staff members
and a thriving Peer Helper program. -
5:55 - 5:59But, like I said before, not all schools,
a majority in fact, -
5:59 - 6:02adequately support the Special
Education department, -
6:02 - 6:04which is making it harder for these kids
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6:04 - 6:06to become the most successful version
of themselves. -
6:06 - 6:09But now, let's say schools
do start providing -
6:09 - 6:11the help they should
be giving to these kids. -
6:11 - 6:13Let's say that these students thrive.
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6:13 - 6:15I mean think of the possibilites.
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6:15 - 6:17They'd be prepared for the work force,
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6:17 - 6:19and they'd learn stronger social skills.
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6:19 - 6:22If the schools are not providing
enough teachers or teachers' aids -
6:22 - 6:24to students in the Special Ed department,
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6:24 - 6:28I say that job is passed to us,
the students. -
6:28 - 6:32I say the students should step up
and support their fellow classmates. -
6:32 - 6:34Every student in here
has the ability to help. -
6:34 - 6:39The hardest part is acting on the problem,
but I know everyone can do it. -
6:39 - 6:43One of the best and most effective ways
you can help Special Education departments -
6:43 - 6:46is by creating or joining
a Peer Helper program. -
6:46 - 6:49Once you join of these programs,
you'll feel like a different person -
6:49 - 6:53because you realize how much of
an impact you have on other individuals. -
6:53 - 6:54Because helping others impacts you.
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6:54 - 6:57It turns you into
a "glass half full" person -
6:57 - 7:01and essentially, build stronger
friendships with those who need it. -
7:01 - 7:05So aside from lunch, being a Peer Helper
is the best part of school by a landslide. -
7:05 - 7:09For those of you who enjoy learning,
just wait until you become a Peer Helper. -
7:09 - 7:11Every Tuesday and some Thursdays,
I help, -
7:11 - 7:13and when I get to school, I am so excited.
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7:13 - 7:16I'm excited for the time of day
I can walk into that room -
7:16 - 7:18and say hello to all my friends
who I enjoy helping. -
7:18 - 7:21Becoming a Peer Helper should
be considered a privilege -
7:21 - 7:24because not only are you positively
impacting your fellow peers, -
7:24 - 7:27they also help you,
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7:27 - 7:29and you'll build
long-standing relationships -
7:29 - 7:30from this as well.
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7:30 - 7:33It is hard work sometimes, and you're
definitely not going to get a trophy -
7:33 - 7:35saying you're a good Peer Helper.
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7:35 - 7:38But really who needs a trophy
when you're gaining a friend? -
7:38 - 7:40That's the best reward.
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7:40 - 7:43Being a Peer Helper helped me
realize who I am as a person -
7:43 - 7:46and my purpose in not just my life,
but other's lives too. -
7:46 - 7:49So I challenge my fellow students
in the audience -
7:49 - 7:51to strongly consider becoming
a Peer Helper. -
7:51 - 7:53You will love it.
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7:53 - 7:56And if you don't have one, talk with
your principal or Board of Education -
7:56 - 7:58and make one because these
students really need it. -
7:58 - 8:00And to you parents listening out there,
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8:00 - 8:04encourage your son or daughter
to participate in Peer Helper programs -
8:04 - 8:07because all it takes is eight words to
change your life and the lives of others, -
8:07 - 8:10"I would like to become a peer helper."
- Title:
- One way to create a more inclusive school
- Description:
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When Brett Lewis signed up to be a Peer Helper in 4th grade, he thought it was a great way to avoid joining the Chess Club. Little did he know, that by signing up to be a part of an inclusion program that would partner him with special education students, he would meet his best friend and discover his favorite part of the school day (besides lunch, of course).
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