WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:01.798 [Samantha Markle] It's not just me. 00:00:01.798 --> 00:00:04.056 It's happening, all around the world, to people. 00:00:04.056 --> 00:00:06.618 And, these people know that they can get away with it, 00:00:06.618 --> 00:00:08.398 if they -- or, they think they can, 00:00:08.398 --> 00:00:09.789 if they go hide under a VPN. 00:00:09.789 --> 00:00:13.919 'Hey, they won't know my ISP, if I do this through a VPN.' 00:00:13.919 --> 00:00:16.851 So, it makes it harder for law enforcement to get them. 00:00:16.851 --> 00:00:19.242 So, one of the things that twitter, and facebook, 00:00:19.242 --> 00:00:20.911 and Instagram, and others can do, 00:00:20.911 --> 00:00:22.350 to help law enforcement, 00:00:22.350 --> 00:00:24.991 and help keep their participants safe: 00:00:24.991 --> 00:00:26.686 biometrics. 00:00:26.686 --> 00:00:28.693 If you get on your computer, to sign in, 00:00:28.693 --> 00:00:31.337 you're using face recognition. 00:00:31.337 --> 00:00:33.003 Or, your fingerprint. 00:00:33.003 --> 00:00:35.323 Or, your -- or your I. D. 00:00:35.323 --> 00:00:38.485 Is that a violation of freedom and privacy? 00:00:38.485 --> 00:00:39.439 Hell, no. 00:00:39.439 --> 00:00:43.014 Because they're not out -- they're out there violating others' 00:00:43.014 --> 00:00:46.946 freedom and privacy, to the extent of criminal acts. 00:00:46.946 --> 00:00:50.893 Criminals are not guaranteed anonymity, under any law. 00:00:50.893 --> 00:00:53.799 If they're going to be out there breaking laws, 00:00:53.799 --> 00:00:55.440 and -- and -- committing crime, 00:00:55.440 --> 00:00:59.696 you're --- you're not entitled to privacy and protection under the law, 00:00:59.696 --> 00:01:03.132 of your face, and your I. D., and your -- no, you're -- 00:01:03.132 --> 00:01:05.946 I think you have an onus, 00:01:05.946 --> 00:01:12.059 as a mature, responsible user of these social interfaces, 00:01:12.059 --> 00:01:14.524 to be transparent. 00:01:14.524 --> 00:01:17.818 You know, yeah -- I'm not out there committing criminal acts, and 00:01:17.818 --> 00:01:21.286 I'm going to prove it, by letting everybody know who I am. 00:01:21.286 --> 00:01:23.036 You know, by being transparent. 00:01:23.036 --> 00:01:24.479 That's just how I feel. 00:01:24.479 --> 00:01:27.100 [Staci DaSilva] So when did you start getting harassed? 00:01:27.100 --> 00:01:29.227 [S. Markle] So, I started getting harassed 00:01:29.227 --> 00:01:31.351 around the time of the royal wedding. 00:01:31.351 --> 00:01:35.852 And, and -- the moment that people knew 00:01:35.852 --> 00:01:38.900 I disagreed with some things about my sister, 00:01:38.900 --> 00:01:40.426 such as, you know, 00:01:40.426 --> 00:01:43.057 not inviting both sides of the family, 00:01:43.057 --> 00:01:44.857 and, um... 00:01:44.857 --> 00:01:49.921 the possibility of my book coming out. 00:01:49.921 --> 00:01:52.751 That was another controversial subject. 00:01:52.751 --> 00:01:54.719 I started getting threats, 00:01:54.719 --> 00:01:57.221 and people would send and tweet 00:01:57.221 --> 00:01:58.989 photographs of me being viewed 00:01:58.989 --> 00:02:00.491 through a high-powered scope, 00:02:00.491 --> 00:02:01.816 behind broken glass, 00:02:01.816 --> 00:02:03.420 with my face in targets. 00:02:03.420 --> 00:02:05.716 You know, if that's not obvious symbolism, 00:02:05.716 --> 00:02:07.037 I don't know what is. 00:02:07.037 --> 00:02:09.053 But, it was all with the intent to 00:02:09.053 --> 00:02:11.162 intimidate, keep me in fear, 00:02:11.162 --> 00:02:14.091 uh, prevent me from releasing my book. 00:02:14.091 --> 00:02:16.219 And you can't do that to people. 00:02:16.219 --> 00:02:17.733 We have freedom of speech. 00:02:17.733 --> 00:02:18.951 And, just because 00:02:18.951 --> 00:02:21.121 someone might not like what I have to say, 00:02:21.121 --> 00:02:23.006 or that I have a book coming out, 00:02:23.006 --> 00:02:25.291 doesn't mean that they can 00:02:25.291 --> 00:02:27.213 engage in criminal activity, 00:02:27.213 --> 00:02:29.292 coercion, threats, intimidation, 00:02:29.292 --> 00:02:32.832 to prevent my exercising my freedom of speech. 00:02:32.832 --> 00:02:35.256 [S. DaSilva] Was this on facebook and twitter? 00:02:35.256 --> 00:02:36.478 [S. Markle] Mmm-hmm. 00:02:36.478 --> 00:02:38.316 And I don't have an Instagram account. 00:02:38.316 --> 00:02:40.453 I started one several years ago, 00:02:40.453 --> 00:02:41.987 and, like I just, 00:02:41.987 --> 00:02:43.445 I think I said "Hello?" 00:02:43.445 --> 00:02:44.535 I never used it, 00:02:44.535 --> 00:02:46.495 but it's got thousands of followers. 00:02:46.495 --> 00:02:48.053 And, it gets daunting. 00:02:48.053 --> 00:02:50.012 Like I can't, I can't go, and get to 00:02:50.012 --> 00:02:51.475 every platform, and say, 00:02:51.475 --> 00:02:53.417 "Hey, shut this down, it's not me," 00:02:53.417 --> 00:02:55.666 so, there are so many fake accounts out there, 00:02:55.666 --> 00:02:57.951 that are out there saying disparaging things, 00:02:57.951 --> 00:02:59.793 and parody accounts. 00:02:59.793 --> 00:03:02.935 Those are also attempts at this, you know, 00:03:02.935 --> 00:03:06.487 uh, defamation, libel, slander, bullying. Uh -- 00:03:06.487 --> 00:03:08.987 [S. DaSilva] How often do you hear from these trolls? 00:03:08.987 --> 00:03:10.785 I mean, on your social media accounts? 00:03:10.785 --> 00:03:13.691 [S. Markle] Um, I shut it down, so I don't see their mentions. 00:03:13.691 --> 00:03:15.041 Because it got to the point 00:03:15.041 --> 00:03:16.872 where they were always mentioning me, 00:03:16.872 --> 00:03:18.025 trying to, you know, 00:03:18.025 --> 00:03:19.754 flag themselves, and get attention, 00:03:19.754 --> 00:03:21.817 and say horrible things, and Photoshop and 00:03:21.817 --> 00:03:24.033 create things to villainize or criminalize me. 00:03:24.033 --> 00:03:26.198 I just thought, you know, "That's not real." 00:03:26.198 --> 00:03:28.192 And, for people out there 00:03:28.192 --> 00:03:30.002 who are bullied in cyberspace, 00:03:30.002 --> 00:03:31.892 you know, I want -- I just -- 00:03:31.892 --> 00:03:33.406 especially young people. 00:03:33.406 --> 00:03:34.423 I want to say, 00:03:34.423 --> 00:03:36.802 "You really can't give that legs." 00:03:36.802 --> 00:03:38.303 "You can't give it breath." 00:03:38.303 --> 00:03:40.044 "It's not real, unless 00:03:40.044 --> 00:03:43.051 you allow it to consume you, and you make it real." 00:03:43.051 --> 00:03:44.692 Um, so... 00:03:44.692 --> 00:03:47.920 you know, teenagers, who go through this. 00:03:47.920 --> 00:03:49.936 They don't have the resources 00:03:49.936 --> 00:03:51.355 to leave their high schools, 00:03:51.355 --> 00:03:53.019 or move out of their communities, 00:03:53.019 --> 00:03:54.698 and they are very trapped. 00:03:54.698 --> 00:03:56.293 And it's overwhelming for them. 00:03:56.293 --> 00:03:57.702 And, some of these trolls 00:03:57.702 --> 00:03:59.142 have such a large presence, 00:03:59.142 --> 00:04:01.290 creating bots, and multiple avatars, 00:04:01.290 --> 00:04:03.658 that these teenagers feel like 00:04:03.658 --> 00:04:05.921 they're being attacked by hundreds of people, 00:04:05.921 --> 00:04:07.500 when, really, they're not. 00:04:07.500 --> 00:04:09.439 They're being attacked by a few, 00:04:09.439 --> 00:04:11.640 who make themselves out to be bigger. 00:04:11.640 --> 00:04:13.260 Well, that's what bullies do. 00:04:13.260 --> 00:04:14.485 They puff their chest. 00:04:14.485 --> 00:04:15.632 They want to feel big. 00:04:15.632 --> 00:04:18.011 They want to feel like they've got a lot of power. 00:04:18.011 --> 00:04:19.392 And, for teenagers, 00:04:19.392 --> 00:04:21.190 it's often inescapable, and 00:04:21.190 --> 00:04:24.132 it results in suicidal ideation, and even suicide. 00:04:24.132 --> 00:04:26.448 So, they need strong support systems. 00:04:26.448 --> 00:04:28.841 Their parents, their friends. They need counseling. 00:04:28.841 --> 00:04:30.171 But, more than that, 00:04:30.171 --> 00:04:32.066 they need to remember that these people 00:04:32.066 --> 00:04:35.088 are only real, and powerful, if you let them be. 00:04:35.088 --> 00:04:37.492 It's important to reach out, and communicate, 00:04:37.492 --> 00:04:39.419 and call them on what they are doing, 00:04:39.419 --> 00:04:41.234 before they become a real problem. 00:04:41.234 --> 00:04:43.539 [S. DaSilva] You had to leave your home, correct? 00:04:43.539 --> 00:04:45.204 How many times have you had to move? 00:04:45.204 --> 00:04:46.220 [S. Markle] Twice. 00:04:46.220 --> 00:04:48.722 [S. DaSilva] Twice. And, from Florida, to Virginia? 00:04:48.722 --> 00:04:51.082 [S. Markle] I moved from Florida to Virginia, 00:04:51.082 --> 00:04:53.340 and then, the same thing happened in Virginia. 00:04:53.340 --> 00:04:55.037 They were sharing my address, 00:04:55.037 --> 00:04:57.304 and asking me if it sounded familiar. 00:04:57.304 --> 00:05:00.192 Um, showing pictures of me, behind a scope. 00:05:00.192 --> 00:05:02.057 But, it got worse than that. 00:05:02.057 --> 00:05:07.221 They were sharing, uh, images of me, being seen through 00:05:07.221 --> 00:05:08.809 our security cameras. 00:05:08.809 --> 00:05:11.538 Or, me, outside, with my boyfriend 00:05:11.538 --> 00:05:13.445 helping me get into my vehicle. 00:05:13.445 --> 00:05:15.881 That could've only been either planted in trees, or 00:05:15.881 --> 00:05:17.777 seen through our own devices. 00:05:17.777 --> 00:05:20.538 Which let me know that I was very hacked, 00:05:20.538 --> 00:05:22.110 and I was being watched. 00:05:22.110 --> 00:05:24.418 Um, they shared pictures 00:05:24.418 --> 00:05:26.841 of my boyfriend, looking at himself 00:05:26.841 --> 00:05:28.491 on his own cell phone. 00:05:28.491 --> 00:05:29.741 Which let me know 00:05:29.741 --> 00:05:31.705 that they had hacked our devices. 00:05:31.705 --> 00:05:34.048 And, their apps had camera access. 00:05:34.048 --> 00:05:36.176 And, they were mentioning 00:05:36.176 --> 00:05:38.569 conversations that we had in our living room, 00:05:38.569 --> 00:05:40.194 about money, or other things. 00:05:40.194 --> 00:05:41.408 And they would say, 00:05:41.408 --> 00:05:43.296 "Hey, what about that thousand dollars?" 00:05:43.296 --> 00:05:44.952 So, they were acquiescing 00:05:44.952 --> 00:05:46.286 to not only stalking, 00:05:46.286 --> 00:05:47.491 but hacking. 00:05:47.491 --> 00:05:49.504 For someone like me... 00:05:49.504 --> 00:05:50.813 I'm a counselor, 00:05:50.813 --> 00:05:52.109 I'm pretty intelligent, 00:05:52.109 --> 00:05:54.116 you know, I think I can handle it, and 00:05:54.116 --> 00:05:55.989 analyze it for what it is? 00:05:55.989 --> 00:05:57.516 But, for a teenager... 00:05:57.516 --> 00:05:59.474 who is, you know, 00:05:59.474 --> 00:06:01.449 going through identity crisis, 00:06:01.449 --> 00:06:03.012 and, you know, 00:06:03.012 --> 00:06:04.264 has a self-esteem 00:06:04.264 --> 00:06:05.901 that is not totally evolved, yet? 00:06:05.901 --> 00:06:07.651 It can be terrifying. 00:06:07.651 --> 00:06:09.470 When you know you are being watched, 00:06:09.470 --> 00:06:11.106 and everything that you do 00:06:11.106 --> 00:06:12.493 is being twisted, 00:06:12.493 --> 00:06:14.698 and used against you, to defame you, 00:06:14.698 --> 00:06:16.657 and to threaten. 00:06:16.657 --> 00:06:19.372 So -- yeah, cyber-bullying is horrible, 00:06:19.372 --> 00:06:21.547 and I think that the burden really needs 00:06:21.547 --> 00:06:25.407 to be on social media platforms. 00:06:25.407 --> 00:06:27.898 Twitter, facebook, Instagram. All of them. 00:06:27.898 --> 00:06:30.345 Um, especially the new ones, coming up. 00:06:30.345 --> 00:06:33.291 To have strict identification measures 00:06:33.291 --> 00:06:35.547 in place, for its users, to prevent this. 00:06:35.547 --> 00:06:37.525 [S. DaSilva] So, you moved to Polk county 00:06:37.525 --> 00:06:38.635 about six months ago? 00:06:38.635 --> 00:06:39.477 [S. Markle] Yeah. 00:06:39.477 --> 00:06:41.103 [S. DaSilva] Did you want to say 00:06:41.103 --> 00:06:42.730 what town we are in, right now? 00:06:42.730 --> 00:06:45.090 Or would you want to just keep it at Polk county? 00:06:45.090 --> 00:06:46.838 [S. Markle] Yeah. [S. DaSilva] Okay. 00:06:46.838 --> 00:06:48.496 Why did you choose Polk county? 00:06:48.496 --> 00:06:49.982 [S. Markle] It's gorgeous. 00:06:49.982 --> 00:06:51.801 I love the lakes, I love, you know -- 00:06:51.801 --> 00:06:53.642 it's, uh -- it's a little more central. 00:06:53.642 --> 00:06:55.790 Where I was -- Well, I didn't like fire ants. 00:06:55.790 --> 00:06:58.181 In Ocala, it seemed to be one of those things 00:06:58.181 --> 00:07:00.422 that was just indigenous to the area, so. 00:07:00.422 --> 00:07:02.250 Um, but I really... 00:07:02.250 --> 00:07:04.092 I wanted the happy medium. 00:07:04.092 --> 00:07:05.919 Being close to water, 00:07:05.919 --> 00:07:07.961 as I was in Southern California. 00:07:07.961 --> 00:07:09.955 And here, I have it, without the smog. 00:07:09.955 --> 00:07:11.268 But, I have family here, 00:07:11.268 --> 00:07:12.665 and I love the people here. 00:07:12.665 --> 00:07:13.909 So, I'm staying. 00:07:13.909 --> 00:07:14.892 [S. DaSilva] Okay. 00:07:14.892 --> 00:07:16.757 And, you moved about six months ago. 00:07:16.757 --> 00:07:18.182 And, this summer, 00:07:18.182 --> 00:07:20.490 you filed a complaint with the sheriff's office. 00:07:20.490 --> 00:07:22.302 Why did you do that? 00:07:22.302 --> 00:07:23.535 [S. Markle] Because, 00:07:23.535 --> 00:07:25.538 I was being stalked and harassed. 00:07:25.538 --> 00:07:28.862 Um, my boyfriend got a ticket 00:07:28.862 --> 00:07:32.892 for a tail light on a trailer, being out. 00:07:32.892 --> 00:07:36.749 And, it was supposed to stay confidential. 00:07:36.749 --> 00:07:39.446 But, the address on that ticket 00:07:39.446 --> 00:07:40.967 was somehow released, because 00:07:40.967 --> 00:07:42.906 trolls were able to comb through 00:07:42.906 --> 00:07:44.957 courthouse computer databases. 00:07:44.957 --> 00:07:47.797 The problem with that is, that, you know -- 00:07:47.797 --> 00:07:51.474 yeah, some court records are private, 00:07:51.474 --> 00:07:53.491 but it wasn't in the news. 00:07:53.491 --> 00:07:55.761 And, I was having my identity and my location 00:07:55.761 --> 00:07:57.531 protected by a real estate company, 00:07:57.531 --> 00:07:59.247 under the circumstances. 00:07:59.247 --> 00:08:01.775 [S. DaSilva] Can we just take that time code down? 00:08:01.775 --> 00:08:03.760 Because she said the address, 00:08:03.760 --> 00:08:05.979 and we did want to put this interview online? 00:08:05.979 --> 00:08:08.862 So, I don't think we want to put the address online. Correct? 00:08:08.862 --> 00:08:10.341 [S. Markle] Okay. Sorry. 00:08:10.341 --> 00:08:12.360 [Man] About 14:56. Right around there. 00:08:12.360 --> 00:08:13.301 [S. DaSilva] Okay. 00:08:13.301 --> 00:08:15.937 Just so, when we go back, we can take that out, for you. 00:08:15.937 --> 00:08:17.053 [Man] Be careful. 00:08:17.053 --> 00:08:18.691 [S. Markle] I know, I know. 00:08:18.691 --> 00:08:20.551 [S. DaSilva] Um, sorry. 14:56 something? 00:08:20.551 --> 00:08:22.414 [Man] Yeah, right around 14:56, yeah. 00:08:22.414 --> 00:08:23.705 [S. DaSilva] Okay. 00:08:23.705 --> 00:08:25.775 [S. Markle] Okay. [S. DaSilva] Okay, sorry. 00:08:25.775 --> 00:08:26.887 [S. Markle] So, so. 00:08:26.887 --> 00:08:27.882 They were saying: 00:08:27.882 --> 00:08:29.973 "Hey, does this number or this street match?" 00:08:29.973 --> 00:08:31.405 "Does this sound familiar?" 00:08:31.405 --> 00:08:32.437 And, I, you know -- 00:08:32.437 --> 00:08:34.252 in other words, they were taunting me, 00:08:34.252 --> 00:08:35.938 with my address, and my location, 00:08:35.938 --> 00:08:37.023 letting me know 00:08:37.023 --> 00:08:38.994 that they were out there, sharing it. 00:08:38.994 --> 00:08:41.942 They were also sharing, um, screenshot admissions 00:08:41.942 --> 00:08:44.160 of having my Social Security number. 00:08:44.160 --> 00:08:45.862 Then, they said, they said, 00:08:45.862 --> 00:08:48.227 "Oh, but we guessed your Social Security number." 00:08:48.227 --> 00:08:50.805 Well, out of all the billions of possible combinations? 00:08:50.805 --> 00:08:52.897 That couldn't be possible. 00:08:52.897 --> 00:08:55.741 So -- you know, they were telling on themselves. 00:08:55.741 --> 00:08:57.801 And the bottom line, here, is that 00:08:57.801 --> 00:09:01.592 there is very private information that they were actively, all day, 00:09:01.592 --> 00:09:05.070 obsessed about and combing, to get every little detail about me. 00:09:05.070 --> 00:09:07.144 That acquiesces to stalking. 00:09:07.144 --> 00:09:10.046 Because uh, uh, you know, someone who you don't know 00:09:10.046 --> 00:09:12.198 doesn't have a right to be looking, 00:09:12.198 --> 00:09:14.792 to see if there is anything about you in court, 00:09:14.792 --> 00:09:17.400 to see what's going on with your medical records. 00:09:17.400 --> 00:09:19.074 To share your address. 00:09:19.074 --> 00:09:22.494 To be direct messaging people and asking questions about you. 00:09:22.494 --> 00:09:25.811 Unless they are a reporter, or they have some valid reason, 00:09:25.811 --> 00:09:30.841 for...getting every piece of information they can, about you, 00:09:30.841 --> 00:09:32.674 and taunting you with it. 00:09:32.674 --> 00:09:35.875 Like: "Hey, what about this? And what about that?" 00:09:35.875 --> 00:09:37.409 Well, who are you, 00:09:37.409 --> 00:09:39.652 to ask me "What about this and what about that?" 00:09:39.652 --> 00:09:41.204 And, to try and spin it, 00:09:41.204 --> 00:09:43.079 to villainize or criminalize me? 00:09:43.079 --> 00:09:45.344 So, for -- I can see how, for teenagers, 00:09:45.344 --> 00:09:46.824 that's overwhelming. 00:09:46.824 --> 00:09:49.907 [S. DaSilva] Mm-hm. Yeah. You talked about the teenagers. 00:09:49.907 --> 00:09:53.545 But, has the sheriff's office been open to your complaint, 00:09:53.545 --> 00:09:55.776 and been taking it seriously? 00:09:55.776 --> 00:09:58.585 [S. Markle] Yeah, since we started this whole thing. 00:09:58.585 --> 00:10:00.544 You know, I showed them everything, 00:10:00.544 --> 00:10:02.513 and let them know what was going on. 00:10:02.513 --> 00:10:04.557 And, you know, I -- I'm really lucky, 00:10:04.557 --> 00:10:07.050 to live in a state that takes that seriously. 00:10:07.050 --> 00:10:10.048 You know, the cyber-stalking and "stand your ground" laws. 00:10:10.048 --> 00:10:11.509 I feel really safe. 00:10:11.509 --> 00:10:12.953 And it's nice to know 00:10:12.953 --> 00:10:15.105 that law enforcement is proactive about that. 00:10:15.105 --> 00:10:17.945 You know, you can't do that to a person. 00:10:17.945 --> 00:10:20.410 You can't taunt them, put them in fear, 00:10:20.410 --> 00:10:22.438 um, intimidate them -- 00:10:22.438 --> 00:10:23.942 harass them -- 00:10:23.942 --> 00:10:26.118 and encourage others, on a wide scale, 00:10:26.118 --> 00:10:28.601 to engage in targeted harassment. 00:10:28.601 --> 00:10:31.890 It's -- nobody, nobody deserves to live like that. 00:10:31.890 --> 00:10:34.544 And, certainly not for expressing freedom of speech. 00:10:34.544 --> 00:10:36.488 Because, you're a journalist. 00:10:36.488 --> 00:10:39.891 If you did a report, and somebody didn't like something you had to say, 00:10:39.891 --> 00:10:43.749 You know...it's really psychotic, that anybody would 00:10:43.749 --> 00:10:47.184 go to that extreme, to suppress what you have to say, 00:10:47.184 --> 00:10:51.644 and to make every corner of your life public information, 00:10:51.644 --> 00:10:53.909 twisting it in a negative way. 00:10:53.909 --> 00:10:56.466 To put you in fear, or shame. 00:10:56.466 --> 00:11:00.502 [S. DaSilva] And, your reaction to the news spreading across the world 00:11:00.502 --> 00:11:04.069 that you were the target of the investigation for 00:11:04.069 --> 00:11:06.295 things you have said about your sister, 00:11:06.295 --> 00:11:08.190 vs. what actually is happening. 00:11:08.190 --> 00:11:11.051 [S. Markle] Well -- and I think that's really important too, 00:11:11.051 --> 00:11:13.282 because there is a problem with aggregate news. 00:11:13.282 --> 00:11:15.902 I understand that journalists and bloggers get so busy, 00:11:15.902 --> 00:11:17.940 and a lot of them, you know -- 00:11:17.940 --> 00:11:20.973 there is often, on one side of, you know, the coin, 00:11:20.973 --> 00:11:23.413 there is paid P. R. that spins things. 00:11:23.413 --> 00:11:27.912 But there is also aggregate news error, that happens. 00:11:27.912 --> 00:11:30.111 When they see fragments of information, 00:11:30.111 --> 00:11:32.771 they don't have a lot of time to pop the stories out, 00:11:32.771 --> 00:11:34.912 and they just copy them verbatim. 00:11:34.912 --> 00:11:37.790 Maybe, with extra words, and spin it a little bit more. 00:11:37.790 --> 00:11:41.295 And suddenly, the victim becomes the suspect. 00:11:41.295 --> 00:11:43.509 Because someone didn't understand 00:11:43.509 --> 00:11:46.307 what "being at the center of investigation" means. 00:11:46.307 --> 00:11:48.743 Well, it doesn't mean I'm the suspect. 00:11:48.743 --> 00:11:51.351 And, they didn't ask. They didn't bother to ask. 00:11:51.351 --> 00:11:53.274 They just assumed, and put it in print, 00:11:53.274 --> 00:11:55.418 that I was the suspect, not the victim. 00:11:55.418 --> 00:11:57.107 Shouldn't happen. 00:11:57.107 --> 00:12:00.469 [S. DaSilva] So there, as you -- Are you afraid for your life? 00:12:00.469 --> 00:12:02.091 Here in Polk county? 00:12:02.091 --> 00:12:04.111 [S. Markle] Well, yeah, I have been. 00:12:04.111 --> 00:12:06.610 And, and, you know, if you can imagine 00:12:06.610 --> 00:12:08.949 seeing your face on a bulls-eye 00:12:08.949 --> 00:12:11.212 behind broken glass, or on a dartboard. 00:12:11.212 --> 00:12:15.116 And, pictures of someone like Matt Damon, 00:12:15.116 --> 00:12:17.178 looking through a high-powered scope, 00:12:17.178 --> 00:12:19.081 a clip from a film, or a GIF. 00:12:19.081 --> 00:12:21.817 And, "You can run but you can't hide, Samantha." 00:12:21.817 --> 00:12:24.844 Those things are symbolic, and they are put out there 00:12:24.844 --> 00:12:27.790 with the intent of putting you in fear. 00:12:27.790 --> 00:12:28.995 Intimidating you, 00:12:28.995 --> 00:12:31.038 preventing you from publishing a book, 00:12:31.038 --> 00:12:33.392 um -- which happened, too. You know... 00:12:33.392 --> 00:12:35.543 "We're gonna, if you put your book out, 00:12:35.543 --> 00:12:37.808 we're gonna download it, and share it for free, 00:12:37.808 --> 00:12:39.379 so nobody buys it." 00:12:39.379 --> 00:12:42.091 Those are -- those are intimidation, uh, tactics, 00:12:42.091 --> 00:12:43.741 that are against the law. 00:12:43.741 --> 00:12:45.230 On many levels. 00:12:45.230 --> 00:12:47.011 And so, yeah, it was scary for me. 00:12:47.011 --> 00:12:48.495 I am in a wheelchair. 00:12:48.495 --> 00:12:50.011 I don't need to feel like, 00:12:50.011 --> 00:12:52.748 I am a slow moving target, going out of my own home. 00:12:52.748 --> 00:12:55.346 Nobody has a right to do that to me, and 00:12:55.346 --> 00:12:57.862 they are subject to legal sanction. 00:12:59.412 --> 00:13:03.478 It's just -- that's not how a legal, you know, 00:13:03.478 --> 00:13:06.752 high functioning society operates. 00:13:06.752 --> 00:13:09.754 And, those criminals need to be made examples of. 00:13:09.754 --> 00:13:13.712 They need to experience specific deterrents, under the law. 00:13:13.712 --> 00:13:17.237 And, they need to be made out to be, you know, 00:13:17.237 --> 00:13:19.070 examples of general deterrents. 00:13:19.070 --> 00:13:21.279 So other would-be cyber-bullies know, 00:13:21.279 --> 00:13:24.455 "Hey, don't do the crime, if you can't do the time," 00:13:24.455 --> 00:13:26.300 and most local law enforcement, 00:13:26.300 --> 00:13:28.667 local and federal law enforcement agencies, 00:13:28.667 --> 00:13:31.389 will come get ya. 00:13:31.389 --> 00:13:33.090 You know, VPN or not, 00:13:33.090 --> 00:13:35.745 there are ways to find these offenders. 00:13:35.745 --> 00:13:37.989 [S. DaSilva] What do you say to critics who say, 00:13:37.989 --> 00:13:41.509 "You spoke out. You know, you were vocal, you wrote a book." 00:13:41.509 --> 00:13:42.765 [S. Markle] Well -- 00:13:42.765 --> 00:13:44.251 [S. DaSilva] "You tweeted..." 00:13:44.251 --> 00:13:46.894 [S. Markle] But, writing a book and speaking out... 00:13:46.894 --> 00:13:49.144 you know, my father had two heart attacks. 00:13:49.144 --> 00:13:51.966 I didn't agree with my sister's treatment of the family. 00:13:51.966 --> 00:13:56.576 That does not give some of these unhinged people 00:13:56.576 --> 00:13:58.783 license, or the right 00:13:58.783 --> 00:14:03.311 to engage in criminal activity against me. 00:14:03.311 --> 00:14:05.696 Stalk, harass, incite violence against me. 00:14:05.696 --> 00:14:07.691 It's like, any of us who have fought 00:14:07.691 --> 00:14:09.290 for freedom of speech, 00:14:09.290 --> 00:14:12.104 whether the issue is gender, race, political issues, 00:14:12.104 --> 00:14:14.417 just because you say something 00:14:14.417 --> 00:14:16.904 doesn't give people who disagree with you, 00:14:16.904 --> 00:14:19.945 the right to put you in fear and suppress your opinion, 00:14:19.945 --> 00:14:22.400 by threatening you when you do. 00:14:22.400 --> 00:14:24.622 And that, you know -- 00:14:24.622 --> 00:14:27.814 I think that's what we really need to make a precedent. 00:14:27.814 --> 00:14:30.024 We're not tolerating this any more. 00:14:30.024 --> 00:14:32.834 We all have to 'agree to disagree' under the law, 00:14:32.834 --> 00:14:35.390 because if you take it beyond those legal boundaries, 00:14:35.390 --> 00:14:38.247 and you engage in criminal activity, intent, 00:14:38.247 --> 00:14:42.240 you know, um -- intimidation, and harassment, 00:14:42.240 --> 00:14:46.174 um, with the intent to put someone in fear, 00:14:46.174 --> 00:14:47.792 if they speak? 00:14:47.792 --> 00:14:50.051 It's against the law. 00:14:50.051 --> 00:14:52.278 [S. DaSilva] Do you have any regrets 00:14:52.278 --> 00:14:55.227 for anything that has happened, since, you said, 00:14:55.227 --> 00:14:56.817 around the royal wedding? 00:14:56.817 --> 00:14:58.500 [S. Markle] Um... 00:14:58.500 --> 00:15:00.663 the only regret... 00:15:00.663 --> 00:15:02.525 no, I don't have regrets. 00:15:02.525 --> 00:15:04.290 Because I was being honest. 00:15:04.290 --> 00:15:05.802 And I've always said, 00:15:05.802 --> 00:15:08.299 "You shouldn't regret telling the truth." 00:15:08.299 --> 00:15:10.463 And, when you tell the truth, you know -- 00:15:10.463 --> 00:15:13.024 yeah, I don't think the whistle blower is the problem. 00:15:13.024 --> 00:15:15.030 But, if you do it from a heartfelt place, 00:15:15.030 --> 00:15:16.616 and it's about family, 00:15:16.616 --> 00:15:18.991 and it's about something you care about, 00:15:18.991 --> 00:15:20.952 when you tell the truth, 00:15:20.952 --> 00:15:22.491 the person on the receiving end, 00:15:22.491 --> 00:15:24.495 or who you are telling the truth about, 00:15:24.495 --> 00:15:26.288 has the opportunity, 00:15:26.288 --> 00:15:28.274 but, I believe also, responsibility, 00:15:28.274 --> 00:15:29.000 to say, 00:15:29.000 --> 00:15:30.960 "Hey. Let me hear what you have to say. 00:15:30.960 --> 00:15:32.264 Let's communicate. 00:15:32.264 --> 00:15:34.004 Let's have a meeting of the minds, 00:15:34.004 --> 00:15:35.481 and make things better. 00:15:35.481 --> 00:15:37.048 Let's do what's right, here." 00:15:37.048 --> 00:15:39.109 And, the only way the right thing can happen 00:15:39.109 --> 00:15:40.901 is if people talk about it. 00:15:40.901 --> 00:15:42.535 Silence, as the status quo, 00:15:42.535 --> 00:15:44.250 accomplishes nothing. 00:15:44.250 --> 00:15:45.782 So, you know, 00:15:45.782 --> 00:15:48.262 where people were afraid to speak, 00:15:48.262 --> 00:15:52.510 because of this high prestige issue, um... 00:15:53.750 --> 00:15:55.313 it's wrong. 00:15:55.313 --> 00:15:57.603 Because there's a real family issue there. 00:15:57.603 --> 00:15:59.174 The public got involved. 00:15:59.174 --> 00:16:01.384 They took it too far, without saying, 00:16:01.384 --> 00:16:02.906 "Hey, they are family. 00:16:02.906 --> 00:16:04.865 They can speak out if they want to. 00:16:04.865 --> 00:16:06.590 It's not really our business." 00:16:06.590 --> 00:16:08.445 But, they had their own agendas. 00:16:08.445 --> 00:16:10.561 So, you can't suppress freedom of speech. 00:16:10.561 --> 00:16:12.227 Or, none of us would be here, 00:16:12.227 --> 00:16:14.216 and you wouldn't have a journalism job. 00:16:14.216 --> 00:16:15.785 [S. DaSilva] Obviously, I think 00:16:15.785 --> 00:16:17.522 there are similarities, here. 00:16:17.522 --> 00:16:18.882 Between what you are saying, 00:16:18.882 --> 00:16:20.353 and what your sister is saying, 00:16:20.353 --> 00:16:21.260 and her husband. 00:16:21.260 --> 00:16:22.220 [S. Markle] Right. 00:16:22.220 --> 00:16:24.321 [S. DaSilva] About how they've been treated, 00:16:24.321 --> 00:16:25.342 [S. Markle] Exactly. 00:16:25.342 --> 00:16:26.873 [S. DaSilva] In the media, with 00:16:26.873 --> 00:16:29.146 false reports, online harassment, and trolling. 00:16:29.146 --> 00:16:30.314 How do you feel -- 00:16:30.314 --> 00:16:32.540 do you have compassion for them, in that way? 00:16:32.540 --> 00:16:35.150 [S. Markle] I do, and I've also learned, through this, 00:16:35.150 --> 00:16:37.402 that you know, in terms of aggregate news, 00:16:37.402 --> 00:16:39.366 at one point, they were seeing stories, 00:16:39.366 --> 00:16:41.561 probably reacting to what they thought we said, 00:16:41.561 --> 00:16:43.245 or what they thought we were doing. 00:16:43.245 --> 00:16:45.003 We were -- it was very reciprocal. 00:16:45.003 --> 00:16:46.086 We were reacting. 00:16:46.086 --> 00:16:47.549 But, the bottom line is, 00:16:47.549 --> 00:16:49.646 there was so much propaganda out there, 00:16:49.646 --> 00:16:52.245 that none of us really knew where the truth was. 00:16:52.245 --> 00:16:54.914 And similarly, with the bullying. 00:16:54.914 --> 00:16:57.578 You know, the people that disagree with her 00:16:57.578 --> 00:16:59.843 have bullied her, to threatening extremes. 00:16:59.843 --> 00:17:01.851 They bullied Kate and William. 00:17:01.851 --> 00:17:03.598 They've bullied me. 00:17:03.598 --> 00:17:05.581 But they have -- the difference is, 00:17:05.581 --> 00:17:08.312 they have the money and the social, um, 00:17:08.312 --> 00:17:12.742 or the financial resources, to protect themselves against that. 00:17:12.742 --> 00:17:14.076 A normal person, 00:17:14.076 --> 00:17:17.003 like me and my dad, you know, our family -- 00:17:17.003 --> 00:17:17.944 we don't. 00:17:17.944 --> 00:17:19.224 [S. DaSilva] Mm-hm. 00:17:19.224 --> 00:17:21.736 [S. Markle] We just got caught in the middle of it. 00:17:21.736 --> 00:17:23.885 But, nonetheless, we had the right 00:17:23.885 --> 00:17:25.475 to speak our feelings. 00:17:25.475 --> 00:17:27.511 [S. DaSilva] There are people, I'm sure, 00:17:27.511 --> 00:17:30.030 I will get tweets, facebook posts, whatever, saying 00:17:30.030 --> 00:17:31.906 you even doing this interview 00:17:31.906 --> 00:17:34.494 is you still trying to get publicity off your sister. 00:17:34.494 --> 00:17:36.738 Why are you speaking out today? 00:17:36.738 --> 00:17:39.071 [S. Markle] I am speaking out today because 00:17:39.071 --> 00:17:42.399 there has been this really, uh, interesting phenomena, of 00:17:42.399 --> 00:17:45.750 ...people have always demanded their freedom of speech. 00:17:45.750 --> 00:17:47.784 They speak out against the President. 00:17:47.784 --> 00:17:49.746 They speak out against, you know, 00:17:49.746 --> 00:17:51.233 whatever the issue is. 00:17:51.233 --> 00:17:52.568 Or, the celebrity. 00:17:52.568 --> 00:17:54.725 And, nobody says, "You just want attention." 00:17:54.725 --> 00:17:56.245 They're just out there, 00:17:56.245 --> 00:17:57.951 exercising their freedom of speech. 00:17:57.951 --> 00:17:59.733 But because of this royal situation, 00:17:59.733 --> 00:18:01.471 suddenly, it's all about, 00:18:01.471 --> 00:18:02.987 "Oh, you must want attention." 00:18:02.987 --> 00:18:04.412 Well, I worked in broadcasting 00:18:04.412 --> 00:18:05.505 for a long time. 00:18:05.505 --> 00:18:06.508 I am fifty-four. 00:18:06.508 --> 00:18:07.835 I don't need attention. 00:18:07.835 --> 00:18:09.481 It, it, it was a family issue, 00:18:09.481 --> 00:18:10.710 it was heartfelt. 00:18:10.710 --> 00:18:12.011 I was concerned with 00:18:12.011 --> 00:18:13.892 my father dying, without closure. 00:18:13.892 --> 00:18:15.655 And, and, in our communities, 00:18:15.655 --> 00:18:18.134 because there was no invitation to the wedding, 00:18:18.134 --> 00:18:19.641 it became public. 00:18:19.641 --> 00:18:21.019 And the assumption was, 00:18:21.019 --> 00:18:22.751 "Oh, you must not be worthy, 00:18:22.751 --> 00:18:24.298 since you weren't invited." 00:18:24.298 --> 00:18:26.643 So, it's not like It was a wedding in Ohio. 00:18:26.643 --> 00:18:28.848 And, we wanted attention: 00:18:28.848 --> 00:18:30.704 "Oh, why didn't we get invited." 00:18:30.704 --> 00:18:33.080 It's because all of our peers in the world 00:18:33.080 --> 00:18:34.843 were suddenly, you know, 00:18:34.843 --> 00:18:36.393 putting us under a microscope, 00:18:36.393 --> 00:18:37.990 "Why didn't you get invited?" 00:18:37.990 --> 00:18:40.262 And it was some sort of character indictment. 00:18:40.262 --> 00:18:41.610 The implication that, 00:18:41.610 --> 00:18:43.046 "Oh, you must not be worthy." 00:18:43.046 --> 00:18:44.517 And then, aggregate news 00:18:44.517 --> 00:18:46.243 started spinning assumptions: 00:18:46.243 --> 00:18:48.613 about the book, about family members. 00:18:48.613 --> 00:18:50.882 And it got out of control. 00:18:50.882 --> 00:18:53.234 So, um. Do I want attention? 00:18:53.234 --> 00:18:54.275 No. 00:18:54.275 --> 00:18:56.551 What I really wanted out of all of this, 00:18:56.551 --> 00:18:58.620 was my sister to realize, 00:18:58.620 --> 00:19:00.682 "Hey. I got caught up in a whirlwind. 00:19:00.682 --> 00:19:02.847 What I did to my dad was wrong. 00:19:02.847 --> 00:19:04.744 We're all bigger people. 00:19:04.744 --> 00:19:06.761 Let's evolve, and do the right thing." 00:19:06.761 --> 00:19:08.416 And it takes just as much time 00:19:08.416 --> 00:19:09.838 to do the right thing, 00:19:09.838 --> 00:19:11.338 as it does to ignore it. 00:19:11.338 --> 00:19:12.511 And, um, 00:19:12.511 --> 00:19:15.125 I'd like to see him be able to communicate with her, 00:19:15.135 --> 00:19:16.493 before he passes away. 00:19:16.493 --> 00:19:18.920 [S. DaSilva] That was going to be my next question. 00:19:18.920 --> 00:19:21.470 What do you hope for your relationship with Meghan, 00:19:21.470 --> 00:19:23.554 and your father's relationship with her? 00:19:23.554 --> 00:19:24.812 For her to reach out? 00:19:24.812 --> 00:19:27.143 [S. Markle] At some point, when she is ready. 00:19:27.143 --> 00:19:28.635 But, you know, with me. 00:19:28.635 --> 00:19:30.117 But, with my father, 00:19:30.117 --> 00:19:32.516 'at some point' may be too late. 00:19:32.516 --> 00:19:34.285 So, you know -- 00:19:34.285 --> 00:19:37.707 our repeated efforts to extend an olive branch... 00:19:37.707 --> 00:19:41.794 I would assume, you know 00:19:41.794 --> 00:19:44.447 when interacting with a, quote, "humanitarian," 00:19:44.447 --> 00:19:48.914 would be met with a very humble, um, 00:19:48.914 --> 00:19:50.792 acceptance, and yeah, 00:19:50.792 --> 00:19:53.518 "Let's look at this. Let's make this better." 00:19:53.518 --> 00:19:56.096 And, that's all I was trying to say. 00:19:56.096 --> 00:19:58.318 And, if that's bashing, wow. 00:19:58.318 --> 00:20:00.486 Then, so, sue me. 00:20:00.486 --> 00:20:02.773 [S. DaSilva] There were some bashing tweets. 00:20:02.773 --> 00:20:04.701 [S. Markle] But that's, you know -- 00:20:04.701 --> 00:20:05.903 'Bashing?' Well... 00:20:05.903 --> 00:20:08.287 I think a lot of the media labeled it as bashing, 00:20:08.287 --> 00:20:10.279 like, if I did the thing I said about 00:20:10.279 --> 00:20:11.801 Harry at the birthday, 00:20:11.801 --> 00:20:14.095 "While you're mac-ing down on your birthday cake, 00:20:14.095 --> 00:20:16.143 don't forget to wish Dad a Happy Birthday." 00:20:16.143 --> 00:20:17.742 Is that bashing, or is it witty? 00:20:17.742 --> 00:20:18.733 The problem -- 00:20:18.733 --> 00:20:20.781 [S. DaSilva] I think you called him a wuss. 00:20:20.781 --> 00:20:23.199 [S. Markle] Yeah. Take your pants back. Be a man. 00:20:23.199 --> 00:20:24.027 Because, 00:20:24.027 --> 00:20:25.759 the whole family was being ghosted, 00:20:25.759 --> 00:20:26.834 and I felt like, 00:20:26.834 --> 00:20:28.124 "Hey. You know, 00:20:28.124 --> 00:20:31.523 you're a man, too. You're letting my father suffer." 00:20:31.523 --> 00:20:34.517 And, there was no real invitation. 00:20:34.517 --> 00:20:37.534 Uh...so, I felt like, 00:20:37.534 --> 00:20:40.078 somebody has to step up, and do the right thing, 00:20:40.078 --> 00:20:41.416 and say something. 00:20:41.416 --> 00:20:42.999 I worked in broadcasting. 00:20:42.999 --> 00:20:44.115 I'm a counselor. 00:20:44.115 --> 00:20:45.803 I believe in communication. 00:20:45.803 --> 00:20:47.762 And, nobody was saying anything. 00:20:47.762 --> 00:20:49.556 And the problem with tweets, though, 00:20:49.556 --> 00:20:51.326 is that you can't hear tone of voice. 00:20:51.326 --> 00:20:53.366 So, while I thought I was saying something 00:20:53.366 --> 00:20:55.675 maybe cynical, maybe witty, 00:20:55.675 --> 00:20:57.191 people couldn't hear it. 00:20:57.191 --> 00:20:59.893 They were interpreting it through their own life lenses. 00:20:59.893 --> 00:21:01.190 Maybe they were angry. 00:21:01.190 --> 00:21:02.939 Maybe they've got a negative lens 00:21:02.939 --> 00:21:04.599 over everything in their lives. 00:21:04.599 --> 00:21:06.338 And, then, they were reacting to it 00:21:06.338 --> 00:21:08.645 from their own personal perspectives. 00:21:08.645 --> 00:21:11.600 Which does not always coincide with 00:21:11.600 --> 00:21:13.671 the sender intent. 00:21:13.671 --> 00:21:16.302 So, I think that's something really important 00:21:16.302 --> 00:21:17.846 about social media, too. 00:21:17.846 --> 00:21:20.277 And because there can be those crossed wires, 00:21:20.277 --> 00:21:22.748 and they can be emotionally heated, 00:21:22.748 --> 00:21:25.294 twitter and facebook and Instagram 00:21:25.294 --> 00:21:27.493 have more of an obligation 00:21:27.493 --> 00:21:30.496 to...not moderate that, 00:21:30.496 --> 00:21:32.247 but, to keep it safe, 00:21:32.247 --> 00:21:36.471 when people's intrepretations carry it to such heated levels, 00:21:36.471 --> 00:21:38.751 that it crosses over into criminal activity. 00:21:38.751 --> 00:21:40.749 That, you know, people are -- 00:21:40.749 --> 00:21:42.920 [S. DaSilva] People say things on social media 00:21:42.920 --> 00:21:44.752 they would never say to someone's face. 00:21:44.752 --> 00:21:47.678 [S. Markle] Right! Because the avatar, you know, is a shield. 00:21:47.678 --> 00:21:49.390 It's a false source of empowerment. 00:21:49.390 --> 00:21:50.959 You know, in the animal kingdom, 00:21:50.959 --> 00:21:53.507 they puff their chest, to look bigger than they are. 00:21:53.507 --> 00:21:55.718 Well, they can do that on social media. 00:21:55.718 --> 00:21:56.910 Behind an avatar. 00:21:56.910 --> 00:21:58.911 "Ooh, big words, on an avatar." 00:21:58.911 --> 00:22:01.217 "I've got a flower out there, or a kitty cat. 00:22:01.217 --> 00:22:04.344 But I'm going to say big, disgusting, terrifying things," 00:22:04.344 --> 00:22:05.608 and, you know... 00:22:05.608 --> 00:22:08.017 It's...not good. 00:22:08.017 --> 00:22:10.042 [S. DaSilva] How is your dad doing? 00:22:10.042 --> 00:22:11.734 [S. Markle] He's doing okay. 00:22:11.734 --> 00:22:13.668 He's doing better. He's, um... 00:22:13.668 --> 00:22:15.192 feeling, you know... 00:22:15.192 --> 00:22:16.747 I think, more empowered. 00:22:16.747 --> 00:22:17.885 This has been... 00:22:17.885 --> 00:22:19.902 a growth opportunity for all of us. 00:22:19.902 --> 00:22:21.941 But, I think more than anything, 00:22:21.941 --> 00:22:25.273 it's really interesting that the royals, 00:22:25.273 --> 00:22:26.649 Meg and Harry, 00:22:26.649 --> 00:22:29.291 and, you know, this side of the fence, 00:22:29.291 --> 00:22:30.488 the Markles, 00:22:30.488 --> 00:22:32.809 we are all kind of saying the same thing. 00:22:32.809 --> 00:22:34.447 It is that you can have, 00:22:34.447 --> 00:22:36.607 especially with the family, 00:22:36.607 --> 00:22:39.420 if there is an issue out there, or a social issue, 00:22:39.420 --> 00:22:41.110 you can disagree, 00:22:41.110 --> 00:22:46.250 but you don't take it to the level of incredible, 00:22:46.250 --> 00:22:49.740 terrorizing, taunting, intimidation, 00:22:49.740 --> 00:22:51.215 threats. 00:22:51.215 --> 00:22:53.249 That's where we cap it. 00:22:53.249 --> 00:22:56.553 [S. DaSilva] Your father doesn't live in Polk county as well, does he? 00:22:56.553 --> 00:22:57.530 [S. Markle] Hmm-mm. 00:22:57.530 --> 00:22:58.494 [S. DaSilva] Okay. 00:22:58.494 --> 00:23:00.020 Um...I read some articles... 00:23:00.020 --> 00:23:01.430 I think you had said that you 00:23:01.430 --> 00:23:03.200 raised Meghan until she was twelve, 00:23:03.200 --> 00:23:04.063 pretty much? Or? 00:23:04.063 --> 00:23:05.558 [S. Markle] See, here is where 00:23:05.558 --> 00:23:06.432 I am gonna talk -- 00:23:06.432 --> 00:23:08.270 [S. DaSilva] I'm gonna fact-check that. 00:23:08.270 --> 00:23:09.927 [S. Markle] Here's where I am gonna 00:23:09.927 --> 00:23:11.586 talk about aggregate news, see. 00:23:11.586 --> 00:23:12.564 [S. DaSilva] Yeah. 00:23:12.564 --> 00:23:14.450 [S. Markle] Even a journalist like you, 00:23:14.450 --> 00:23:16.103 and a lot of other journalists, 00:23:16.103 --> 00:23:17.923 and talk show hostesses, believe that. 00:23:17.923 --> 00:23:19.657 And I was sitting here, going, 00:23:19.657 --> 00:23:21.537 "Wow. Where did you hear that?" 00:23:21.537 --> 00:23:22.659 [S. DaSilva] Mm-hmm. 00:23:22.659 --> 00:23:25.014 [S. Markle] Because I had said in one interview, 00:23:25.014 --> 00:23:27.334 "I was integral in her life, until about twelve." 00:23:27.334 --> 00:23:29.174 I always lived about ten minutes away, 00:23:29.174 --> 00:23:30.663 she was born in our household, 00:23:30.663 --> 00:23:33.023 my dad and Doria divorced when she was about six. 00:23:33.023 --> 00:23:35.798 Still, it was during the week, weekends, intermingling, 00:23:35.798 --> 00:23:37.390 you know, when I wasn't working. 00:23:37.390 --> 00:23:38.629 And life was very normal. 00:23:38.629 --> 00:23:41.566 For families with big sisters, and you know, younger kids. 00:23:41.566 --> 00:23:43.700 But some journalists took it upon themselves 00:23:43.700 --> 00:23:44.563 to say: 00:23:44.563 --> 00:23:46.281 "She said she raised her." 00:23:46.281 --> 00:23:48.250 I never said I raised her. 00:23:48.250 --> 00:23:51.090 I said "I was integral in her life, until about twelve." 00:23:51.090 --> 00:23:54.547 And then, even interacting all the way up through Northwestern. 00:23:54.547 --> 00:23:56.571 And when she was in Buenos Aires. 00:23:56.571 --> 00:23:57.905 And, even when... 00:23:57.905 --> 00:23:59.800 So, to set the record straight, 00:23:59.800 --> 00:24:02.515 the last time I saw her was 2008. 00:24:02.515 --> 00:24:06.204 The last time I spoke to her on the phone was 2015, December, 00:24:06.204 --> 00:24:08.031 going on January, 2016. 00:24:08.031 --> 00:24:09.800 The last week of December. 00:24:09.800 --> 00:24:11.468 So, no, it's not like -- 00:24:11.468 --> 00:24:12.661 and people said, 00:24:12.661 --> 00:24:14.000 "Oh, she hasn't spoken -- "