Neil, on his 10th birthday party, he does something different.

He says, "I'm going to invite all my friends and we are going to do a free car wash for the community."

So they had their board and their gingle

and all these strangers pulled up on the driveway.

They split up into the pre-rinse team, the soap team, the rinse team, the tire team.

They were just going at it.

Now imagine if you are pulling up in one of these cars.

The people come out of these cars and they are completely bowled over.

They are like, "What are you doing this for? Is this a fundraiser? That's amazing! I'd like to contribute.

"No, no, we are not doing this for a fundraiser. We are actually just practicing generosity."

It was amazing to see the connections between these strangers and the kids, but what was even more amazing was how these kids bonded.

So you can be Facebook friends and those loose ties have their value.

You can go out to movies with your friends and those deep ties have their value.

Or you can serve others together

and that creates gift ties and those are priceless.